coffeeminx Blog Comments (1,242)

Is this IT ? ? ?

@Zeussy
sure it does

but that sure takes the fun out of life

i say spread the love

Is this IT ? ? ?

@yazz
thanks for you input.
Do you feel like you have attained that

Is this IT ? ? ?

Ok, so at what stage do you then make the decision that the time is right to take it to the next level, . . . what ever that might be

Is this IT ? ? ?

@RDM

Does that qualify as Love . . . or Happiness

I'm not sure that they automatically mean the same thing

Is this IT ? ? ?

@Morg

you didn't include your usual u-tube to go with it.

How does it relate to how you KNOW when you are in love ? ? ?

Just incase you need some additional help to answer this, here

Help . . . What to do ? ? ?

All the advice and feedback, had the desired effect in that I took some form of action . . .
instead of continuing to wonder if . . .
I made the call and we had a very good


I feel better, and . . . We'll see . . .

Thanks

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@Kem
Thanks for the support . . .
I've been bitting my nails for the past few days

But I eventually mustered the courage to make the call . . .

And i can safely say that All's Well, that Ends Well

I didn't make a mistake (or a fool of myself)

RE: what is up!!

@Sherwood
I was going to say welcome back
but since you doubting my womanhood . . .

Oh what the heck . . .

WELCOME BACK

RE: Home Is Where The Heart Is!!

This is a lovely blog and very true

RE: the wondering man has things to deside for him and

Let me think about that for a .. .OH YEAH . . . second

Is this the new trend ? ? ? ?

@Yaaks
Interesting option . . . never gave that a thought, certainly has the "feel better now" effect

Flight or Fight ............

@Freya

Those sound like words to live by . . .
Thanks for sharing your wisdom

RE: what would you do in my place?

On the occasions when I have ignored my intuition, I have paid a high price. . .

If you constantly tell your intuition to be quiet, by ignoring it, it will stop working for you . . .

Listen

RE: Dear Dad..

@g33

Honestly, speaking as a parent, I know when my kids are sharing something with me, even if they don't say a word.
Often they would just pop into my room for no apparent reason, say nothing specific and walk away. Just the fact that they did that tells me that they missed me.(even though I was right there)

Please don't imagine for a moment that your dad was not aware of what you wanted to say to him . . .

HE KNEW . ..

And possibly that is what the dream was about . . . it was him trying to tell you that this is HIS journey, you need to get out, and find your own path, with a reminder to you to rmember what the values he taught you . . . to look out for your mother.

Forgive yourself, and let him go . . .

Help . . . What to do ? ? ?

@feeling

Generally I would agree with you.

I asked myself what I would have done if the roles were reversed and quite frankly, after multiple efforts on my side to make contact with no luck . . . I would probably have written it off to a bad experience and left well alone. . .

So considering the problem had come from my side, common decency dictates that i do what is right . . .
Right now its a matter of plucking up the courage to do it

Thanks for your input

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Lana, I thought of the text, but it does seem like the cowards way out to me, soo

thanks for the advice

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@African

Hey, don't you sleep ? ? ?



It's just after midday here now .. . .

I'll call tonight . . .Okay?

I'll need a for that

RE: Dear Dad..

BTW

Congratulations

You succeeded in getting more than a one liner out of Parti

RE: Dear Dad..

@G33k

This is a beautiful lesson to all of us to appreciate what we have not only in our fathers but also in our mothers, our children our siblings, our friends.
We never know how much time we have left with them. Nothing can make up for the regrets of IF ONLY . . .

From what you have said, I don't think you have any reason to feel guilty about not saying anything to your Dad. . . your tears told him everything you wanted to say . . .

Thanks for sharing that with us

RE: Why I am here

@Lummy

:party :

make yourself comfortable

Welcome, to insanville . . .



But its okay . . . we have a blast anyway

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Do men normally experience this insane confusion about making contact

I now really have a new perspective on this

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Snail mail . . .
OK,


So is this what you would do in similar circumstances

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Yes he is . . . 15min from me in fact . . . .

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@Morg

Aargg . . . no coffee YET
like i said before, the world's our oyster

So you say, Lay it on thick???

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@Morg
Thanks for the advice and support from the male perspective

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@Africa

Thanks for the pep-talk and the butt-kicking

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@Swiss

Thanks for the advice
and support

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@Parti
Without you here, we would all become Mentally Deranged

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Tomorrow?????

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I'd welcome any other thoughts on this !