Fairie, we can't get rid of them, so we just have to learn to cope with them.
BTW, I've picked up quite a few in SA you need to be watchful of. It's been quiet here up until a few days ago and there's been a sudden flooding of SA bugs . . . some of their residences are very suspect
But i work my way around them. Lets have fun despite them
I like Duckie's suggestion. Whatever is bothering you, put it down on paper, thrash it out, develop a plan around it, then put it to bed it works for me
RE: Trusting dating sites to find friends or partner
Baltus, baltus is gorgeous . . . first time I've seen him