Morg, That part of it is not the problem, it the paper work which i hate . . . because I always leave it til the last minute then I have to rush, sometimes spending all night on it.
Unfortunately that does happen, but then the ones doing it, aren't really true friends are they True friendships are a blessing and wonderful if you have it
African, you are so sweet, and one day you will realize that it is not always necessary to carry all your burdens on your own. Some wonderful friends of mine always told me that when i share with them they have the privilege of listening. And when I refuse any help from them they claim that I am robbing THEM of their BLESSINGS
This forced me to look at friendship and especially giving and accepting help in a totally new light
Blue. I wish I did have the poetic words to put down here, so unfortunately no . .. I did not write them, however, they truely express how i feel about friendship, and being a true friend.
I'm willing to bet that we would be in each others pepsi drawers
Hi Kissfm I didn't sign up here to find my one true love, I infact did sign up to make friends, which you so rightly pointed out I have.
For me if it happens, it happens, but so many have come here with the sole intent of finding someone, only to give up before the battle is won infact, they will be here for a week and then claim they are wasting their time
I miss dancing with him, laughing with him, taking long drives, sharing crazy ideas, walking on the beach, and definitely making love, and of course making love, and . . . did I mention making love?
Once again we come back to issue of whether or not we send out mixed messages . . . When we doubt ourselves, we change the tone of our comments, or we withdraw(like you mentioned) or we go silent even . . .
could this not be seen as us not knowing what we want from this experience, like feeling said earlier, setting our goals, early in the game?
@ Summer, I like the quote you used, and i use it often in my daily life. It is strange how we tend to overlook that basic fact of life. We will continue to bash our heads against a brick wall and then complain about the headache we can't shake I think that is more often true about relationships than about any other aspect of our lives
Hi Tang I think this ties in well with your previous comment as well, in that we become so caught up in the search, that we forget to look around us. Maybe we should be more willing to let life take centre stage, while we merely keep the stage lights on?
TAXES ! ! ! ugh ! ! !
African, I was about to say that I'm moving to Kuwait, then I read morg comment and your responseI think I'l stay here with my paperwork . . .thanks
But i think I need a drink