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RE: Expectations. Part 1

I am back

Yes. I have one expectation. That the communication does not stop. We had to get along well because we wanted to meet in person. So it does never make sense to me when people meet and that personal meeting was the end of a good communication.

I wish you, too, a lovely weekend

RE: Expectations. Part 1

I am an INTP A
This is very much with me like this:
"Absent-minded – When Logicians’ interest is captured, their absence goes beyond social matters to include the rest of the physical world. Logicians become forgetful, missing even the obvious if it’s unrelated to their current infatuation, and they can even forget their own health, skipping meals and sleep as they muse."
I wish I had not to sleep.

This, too:
"Second-Guess Themselves – Logicians remain so open to new information that they often never commit to a decision at all. This applies to their own skills as well – Logician personalities know that as they practice, they improve, and any work they do is second-best to what they could do. Unable to settle for this, Logicians sometimes delay their output indefinitely with constant revisions, sometimes even quitting before they ever begin."
That is my life regarding what I do. I have actually finished projects, works, ideas in my drawers, but they feel not finished yet.

This, too:
"Very Private and Withdrawn – While Logicians’ intellectualism yields many insights into their surroundings, their surroundings are ironically considered an intrusion on their thoughts. This is especially true with people – Logicians are quite shy in social settings. More complicated situations such as parties exacerbate this, but even close friends struggle to get into Logicians’ hearts and minds."
Yes, my home is my brain.

This, too:
"From the start, Logicians take their relationships seriously – their imagination and vision, and the challenge of getting to know new people, make them all too aware of how important it is that they’re involved with someone, and they will prove themselves surprisingly loyal. Even early in the dating phase, Logicians are unusually direct and honest, doing their best to express their mindset and create mutual understanding, believing that this shared knowledge will help to minimize misunderstandings and avoid conflict."
And I do not understand why, when we are honest with each other, there is the need for confirmation of my loyalty or love verbally permanently. Either the said and the commitment is true or not. But if the other one needs that and he tells me that, I will think of it.

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RE: Simple Math Problem

Little correction :-)
Crunia
I would say that is only solvable reasonably if there would be also dogs who are not or not only large or small because there cannot be a half dog.

RE: Simple Math Problem

Crunia
I would say that is only solvable reasonably if there would be dogs who are not or not only large or small because there cannot be a half dog.

RE: The Language of the Eyes

I would not rely on that, skaligsm.

I made the experience with two people who have a Narcissistic Personality Disorder that they always looked into my eyes - when they talked and also when I talked to them.They can lie looking into your eyes because you doesn´t matter to them and, like Daniela says, they have no consciousness for guilt. Also they live in their own created reality, in a construct, and often believe their own lies are facts or the truth.

RE: A Hermeneutic of Poe’s Tell Tale Heart

Hello, psiberite
I like everything of Edgar Allan Poe very much.

I think he wanted to separate the evil fom the rest of the old man, and the insanity was that he felt he loves the old man while killing him to remove the evil eye. But the evil eye was the personality of that old man, and it was not possible to separate them.

RE: Bad Experiences With Men

I was raised within our family by a good and loving dad, and I like men and find it less complicated to communicate with them. But I think it is because how I grew up and that I could rely on the words of my dad always.

I think when someone was in an abusive relationship and does not ask themselves how this could happen and does not change himself or herself, then everything will repeat itself in every following relationship because you attract always the one who fits to you like the other side of a zipper with all the good and bad mechanisms.

I do not understand well how any generalization can happen at all about women and men. It has always only do do with the individual.

RE: where

It is Tschüß (for the case the site will not write the right letters: tschuess, with a sharp s :-))

RE: And now for something ...

I didn´t know Rob Cantor. Thank you!! I have watched already 29 Celebrity Impressions and the making of, too :-)

RE: This One's For Newbies!

An absolute admirable alliteration

RE: This One's For Newbies!

Oh Molly, thank you (also for "facing" )

RE: This One's For Newbies!

I am sorry for sneaking in
(no steak knife )

RE: This One's For Newbies!

I am everything that Molly said and also have no intelligence , but I am anyhow happy.

RE: Petri dish

I have the feeling that CS is a mini universe with really so dear and good people, but also with a little bit worse characters (maybe distance makes bad people worse or it is their pea brain).

Sometimes I am reminded here of something that my dad said to me when I was a small child. He said a reliable sign of stupidity in someone is when she or he all the time states that she or he is very intelligent or even more intelligent than others. He said really intelligent people would never do that because they feel much too much busy with exploring the wide world and feeding their mind with new stuff.
And he said also that stupid people ask a lot of stupid questions, but they of course do not perceive them as such. He taught me also to avoid respect them. Halleluja.

RE: Is Fake the true danger?

Hello, dear Molly
I find them dangerous, too - these people who you describe (who feed their egos through making the other one feel bad, dependent and small).

They are dangerous in a bad way. They are bad. They miss good social skills, but developed bad social skills out of no feeling of selfworth. They are small minded, and their mind goes around in circles, only around their ego because no one else ever cared.

My mom said once about such people they are poor small sausages. I understand why she said that, but I wish we could shoot all these poor small sausages all together to another planet right now.

RE: Not A Bad Day

Hi, dear Track
thank you, this day is quite good, but I am verry sorry that you have pains. I feel with you.

My slipped disc is after three months better since Tuesday after the first acupuncture session. I can´t believe that I am not walking around anymore saying ouch all the time. Here the insurance pays for acupuncture in some cases, and one of them is back pain. Maybe your insurance does it, too?

Another careful hug from one bad back to the other

RE: Im gonna

Mollybaby ,
what I always wanted to say is to know that someone like you exists makes this world okay for me (and that is actually impossible all my life :-))

You are the most intelligent human being here, and I think your mind and your heart and your wit have no limit.

There could be an invasion of stupid people, the world would still be okay because you are there.

Good night

RE: Honesty – Really?

Hello, dear Molly ,
I can´t count the times I experienced such situations with partners and friends and family. I think now that it is a little bit rare that there is someone who has an open door in his mind and believes you and understands exactly that what you said.

There were with partners the situations that you describe, and they even said with words things like "ah, that will change", as if I didn´t tell them honestly who I am and what I like or not like, but as if they were the harbour I had been searching for all my life to help me, although there was nothing to help. It was only an information. Later, when they were disappointed and pretended I never explained anything, I could tell them even the weekday and date when we talked about it, but actually it was the same situation again.

It is so difficult when you can not rely on that another person did hear your words in the original, simple meaning. Maybe there are too many feelings or anticipations around the words on the listening side.

RE: You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are.

Hello, dear Molly ,
I also believe, which people we attract, depends always only on how or who we are. It depends on how or who we are in our innermost and if we maybe also know a little bit about ourselves and our family and why we all became who we are and how we can change ourselves, so that we and our children can be happy and have the feeling the whole world is there for living and that we/they are so okay in our/themselves that we/they automatically not can become a part of some strange or bad mechanisms in any kind of relationships (and so would not attract the wrong people :-)). Oh my, I hope that makes sense

RE: Internet problem need help,...............

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RE: Narcissistic women are dangerous

Hello, aldude
I am sorry that you had to make that experience. I know how difficult it is to internalise with mind and heart that a narcissistic person does simply not have the good social mechanisms that would make her or him understand how wrong she or he behaves towards others.
It is good that you decided to keep a distance, and the bigger the distance, the better

RE: Relationships and Algorithms

Truheart, I adore your German

RE: No wonder I'm messed up

Unfortunately I don´t know the tv show with the human and the dog .

The muppets I liked, too, very much. And Skippy, the bush kangaroo I know, too

And I watched together with my older sister John Steed and Emma Peel (I think it is "The Avengers"? In German it has a totally different title).

RE: No wonder I'm messed up

Hello, nonsmoker
oh, Vincent Price! Yes, oh my. Have you watched the Edgar Allan Poe movies with him? I have them all on old video cassettes and also still a video recorder The fall of the house of Usher or The masque of the red death. Oh, I have to look for the cassettes and watch it all again.
And I have also a very old Alan Parsons Project music cassette, "Tales of mistery and imagination" where they tell poetry and stories of Edgar Allan Poe.

Oh, and Christopher Lee! I think, I watched all his Dracula movies.

I have a movie (also on a video cassette) from 1922 "Nosferatu - symphony of horror" with Max Schreck as the "protagonist". It is so funny. The german word Schreck means fear or shock
Now I stop better

RE: No wonder I'm messed up

I always loved Peter Cushing

RE: Walking Dead Fans!!

RE: It is dark tonight

Oh, you are welcome, dear Vikingson. When I read your words I wished I could make a tiny little book of them so that I can keep them as if I had a peaceful little place with me always.

One day I want to live in the countryside and have my horse with me. I would sit every evening in the dark on a bale of straw and listen to the sounds that she makes when she is eating hay

RE: It is dark tonight

You wrote so beautifully

RE: Walking Dead Fans!!

Shinegirl, I think you mean the new season 7? Here we could watch only 5, and 6 will start next year. We are always much, much later here

RE: And now for something completely different