You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are.
You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you areThe moment you’re happy on your own is when the right relationship enters your life (Myke Macapinlac)
Many people complain about not being able to find a partner, or finding the wrong one, or not being able to hold on to the right one.
Some blame everything on past partners, rather than focusing on improving themselves to a level that makes them good partner material.
Is the answer within ourselves? Do we attract what we deserve?
Comments (126)
Try Smile and the world will begin to smile back !
Very true I have always found in my darker moods.
will it spoil the happiness of being alone, that usually has taken a long time?? I realy can't answer that one yet.
Reflecting back on the past few centuries
I think I just answered my own question
Then along comes somebody who knocks us off our feet and logic goes out the window and the Rose colour glasses come into their own .
Red, that is a slightly different issue. Being happy on one's own is different from being happy in one's own skin
Gol, you agree with the statement so
Serene, circular is good
Being happy in one's own skin could be that you are happy in your own company, or you could be equally happy with a partner.
And the fact that you don't attract me, means fabulous things for me too
take someone as he is. Do not try to change him else you'd be loving your version of him rather than him! That's what mum told me.
Bull aside, why is negativity consider to be a bad thing? I am an extremely negative and pessimistic person. I imagine the worse and hope for the best. Why's that wrong? I don't get it.
OK typhoid mary. It works.
That says alot about me.
Or where I see the good in everyone and always welcome people into my home and life, and if they don't quite work out as I expected then I just be polite and keep back. He wouldn't let anyone in, would tell me not to talk to people or go out so much etc. In the beginning I found the fact he was quite possessive of me as nice, but towards the end I realised it was control....this is the negativity I was trying to drag out of him. I adored him, I wasn't going anywhere but in the end he pushed me into a corner
just now I am only attracted to my roses to clean them up making them ready for the spring weather
In the evenings I love good food and good music and good book.
Thanks Rough, its mutual
What if something you had is what you didn't want because you had it, but now that you haven't got it , it may of been something that you wanted that you couldn't get.
But then you don't know what you want so how do you know you can't get it until you've got it.
This rounds on me
Just when an idea comes into my head
Share it around
I think love unconditionally whatever and then none of the other stuff will matter
Molly I'm feeling it today too