You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are.

You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are

The moment you’re happy on your own is when the right relationship enters your life (Myke Macapinlac)

Many people complain about not being able to find a partner, or finding the wrong one, or not being able to hold on to the right one.

Some blame everything on past partners, rather than focusing on improving themselves to a level that makes them good partner material.

Is the answer within ourselves? Do we attract what we deserve?
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Hello, dear Molly wave hug ,
I also believe, which people we attract, depends always only on how or who we are. It depends on how or who we are in our innermost and if we maybe also know a little bit about ourselves and our family and why we all became who we are and how we can change ourselves, so that we and our children can be happy and have the feeling the whole world is there for living and that we/they are so okay in our/themselves that we/they automatically not can become a part of some strange or bad mechanisms in any kind of relationships (and so would not attract the wrong people :-)). Oh my, I hope that makes sense laugh
Hello Molly,hug You are right, and have brought up some good points.,gives me a different way of looking at things, Thanks. I ve found people, when they hear ms, they assume wheelchairs,confined to a bed, inactivity....
MAybe I ve been trying to ,somewhat stress, I m not there. Its a different situation, for instance when a lot of people hear someone has a disability,they avoid that person ,thinking the person with a disabilty will be asking for help or assistance of some sort. Its been a learning procedure.
Hi Innoc hug

Self-knowledge and self-development are the key to a happy self, and a happy self is key to a happy relationship thumbs up
-molly

Moll, have you seen you pal biff? I've haven't seen her around lately. Guess she's causing trouble somewhere else.. (scratches chin)
Tenner, she's away on holidays at the moment.

She'll be back to annoy you before long grin
All I know is MrNiceGuy is really attracted to me!!!! smitten love laugh


Molly reunion
Mimi!reunion


Yay for you! cheering But why wouldn't he, you are fabulous!
Hmm .. I see. I thought that that might be the case.. gotta keep that chick on a short leash. Me word. laugh
wave Ummm........... yes I do. cool
Good for you, Peds laugh
Awwwwww....Molly, thank you blushing hug

Oh! Art said 'Hi'. He's sampling all the local goodies here. He has warned me though, he'd try anything except fish head, sea cucumber, frog, snake, chicken feet and other so called exotic stuff!! grin
Mimi, I think I'm with him there laugh

Hi Art wave
Itchy, I am not saying that by improving yourself that you will magically attract the man you have your eye on. He will obviously have his own criteria for a partner too, and it may not be you.
And if you don't fit into his criteria, then he is not the man for you either. Not the right relationship for you.
A different way of saying it Molly... but isn't that what I said laugh
Itchy, don't say we're agreeing with each other help


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your blog is an interesting one but im lost at this stage yous womernn are stone bonkers is no other way of saying it .it ..such stupid ideas ..is beyond reality .is up to ourselves whom we meet is simple .have met a few and do be honest when asked something don't go down well with most so now im having a glass of wine after walking
««« Stone bonkers grin
Johnj's got it.
In a nut shell. Relationships are like a bottle of wine. Some good, but you forget the name and can't seem to find it again. Some bad and mistakenly get it again. (Drink it anyway and then swear never again)
get it into you and then we can dance and make hay
User, I agree up to a point.

But one also can't go around with a negative attitude, maybe slating all men/women, then wondering why you can't get a nice, good partner.
You are def right Molly.
That would be like one bad bottle of wine or a bad beer. Am I going to stop drinking because of it? NO
I know there's good bottles out there so best keep sampling the product and then latch on when you find it.
Jaykurs User, you might become an alcoholic before you find it drink pouring


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Ah is that why all these young girls that never drink keep messaging me?
Maybe opposites do attract.
I'll have to ponder that over a drink later.
JJ, please be more specific - am I a looney or a frustrated woman? Or both? writing
is not you girl sure your me darling
Aw thanks JJ heart wings kiss
-john

she's bloody both squared I says... but I'll get her back in line. One day, I shalt do exactly that.
Aw Ten, lips for your delusions
well, it's still something.
nea no think she good is a bit iof funn and gives out good advice .has no agenda say shes sitiing there having a bit of fun if only more here were the same all she wants is chips
Imb, you'd better get over that laugh
Molly

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Is that a big yawn? wow


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Meaningful one, I suppose grin
A meaningful yawn laugh
Yawn and tag are both catchy!

Btw when are u posting a new blurry pic?
No more blurs.
This or nothing grin
Show stoperfrustrated

cheers hug
You'll get over it cheers
Aye aye doctor

Aye ayecheers
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