Wow Virgo!!! Then I suggest you work on your issues (resentment?, anger? etc.) and learn to forgive, nomatter what! Forgiveness is the key for letting go of the past and moving on.. Then, open your heart
This photo is from a beautiful legend from the "Sioux" tribe.. called "the art of living together".
It's about two people (Brave Bull and Blue Cloud)who want to get married and went to see this Wise Man to ask for his advice. The question was: "We are very much in love, but we would like to know if there is some kind of guarantee that we will stay this way forever?..."
After being put through a test, they realized that the only way to stay together forever is "when we are both free and can fly on our own without any ties."..
It can be seen on the internet with images and music - absolutely beautiful!
Hi Daniel! I agree with Calin here. All this depends on the situation. If it doesn't affect you personally, why bother get involved, you maybe wasting your time!
But I am also like Calin and Bogart, I believe when there is a problem between two people, it should be confronted in a civilized manner. First discuss the matter, come to a solution, forgive and then forget. It doesn't have to be a winner here!
Repressing feelings of anger doesn't do anyone any good! It doesn't mean that you have to "hit" the person! - but, running away from a situation is not the answer either! Otherwise, we are back living in a "survival" mode, like the cave men: "Fright, Fight or Flee"
Voices? We all have voices speaking to us if we care to listen...sssh...!
Voices come from our heart, or from our soul... Sometimes they speak in a language that only the receiver can understand...?
Sometimes only the little things in life that give us joy and laughter... If we connect with our "inner child", we will hear the same voices....Just listen...
Mirror, mirror on the wall... who is the fairest of them all? I look in the mirror to remind me how beautiful I am and I see a reflection of Love...
The mirror work is not to find our flaws, but to recognize our beauty and love ourselves unconditionally... And, by doing so, we enourage others to do the same...
Beachnit. ... "Just wish people that behaved this way could see the impact they can have on others sometimes. As I said though the true loosers will be them in the end"
Yes, of course they will be losers! But,it is not a question of winning or losing here, is it? The problem is: Does it affect you? And, if it does, then it means that you have still some work to do on yourself (?)
We all have lessons to learn and they can't be learned if you live alone on a desert island...
I am glad that you agree that all we can do is send these people LOVE Remember, Love is contagious!
It sounds as if you have been judged and hurt Beachnit? I agree entirely with you here but...why should you have to "defend" yourself every time someone passes judgement on you? I know, it is an instinctive response!
I used to feel that way too and have learned to control these impulses and have learned to accept that this is "their" problem, and not mine! Hard work, I know!
There will always be people to push our buttons from time to time, just to remind us... The day that it doesn't affect us anymore is the day we have finally learned!
Just send these people Loveinstead and wait for the result!
Scouse, why do you ask if I am an "ex" teacher? Yes I am, and still am... Teaching is a vocation and it's like riding a bike, you never loose it! Do you need lessons scouse? I do online courses...
Why do girls panic and scream? good question! Maybe it is the fact that we, women, are programmed to see danger and warn people of danger...? Women, remember, are the "carers", the "nurturers" etc. it is in our genes, or our DNA.
Why can men sleep so deeply during the night, in spite of noise?- you need an earthquake to wake a man up - while women have to stay "alert" in case the baby wakes up or a burglar comes in!
Itchywitch. I agree with this statement:..."you get to go on so many dates and each one makes you thankful you are alone!" Sometimes this is the way I feel too!
What Owlsway is saying is NOT contradictory if you care to read the whole text... "... to live in the memories" - is living in the past "... to live in imagination" - is living in the future And it says here that both are a "non-existential" world...
RE: Now Hear This!
Bungalow. I agree with you. I don't like Sundays either, especially in the winters!Voy te dar respuestas luego, vale?