We all have a stone. It's up to us how to use it. It may be thrown at someone... or the same stone can be joined with other people's stones to build a bridge.
Our "stones" aren't bad. Some choices how to use them are.
You have a gift for understatement, Viv! Mind you, none of her family - either side - were any more shrinking violets than she was. NEVER had to guess what any of 'em were thinking!
See comment above regarding my daughter, Viv. I suspect a "bad" boy turns "good" when he finally meets his match...or his better. Bogey & Bacall might be a clsssic example.
Wife was a cross of New York Italian & Milwaukee Polish. Sorta like living in the movie Moonstruck...only more profane.
RE: It is 10:00 PM
.......Danged NWO!