U have a valid point there and it is happening all over the world.
I have noticed that poorer kids are better looked after than kids with more money. Poor people still understand the concept of family while rich people go out all the time to enjoy themselves leaving the kids alone at home to do whatever they please, or with a babysitter that is sometimes very corrupt. The older the kids r the more free their living becomes. They r into drugs, booze, u name it.
U must be scared everytime u let them out. It appears to be that u r staying somewhere in the wild. Hope he gets better soon. How is the antique rocking chair.
The more appropriate way of putting it I guess would b.
In the last 22 yrs I have found noone suitable as a partner that would fit comfortably into my life allowing for the fact that it takes a very long time for two people to get to know each other and then find the suitable attraction necessary to form an acceptable partnership.
Yes I have been rejoicing to be rid of him for a long time. Every time I c one of his characteristics in another person they r rejected. Thus noone else for 22 years. I'm am not mitigating anything. I have no excuses for him or me. It is the past. A terrible past that I do not wish on anyone. I am not looking for sympathy. Men like that deserve to be hated and no he does not hold me for ransom.
Good riddance to bad rubbish. That is why I am not interested in men. You get a decent few. They r all married happily as it should be.
My friend at work has the same problem. He is 64 and here in sa men retire at 65 if they can offord to. He has jolled all his life and now cannot afford to retire.
He wants to give up his medical aid which is a lot then he should me able to afford retirement on his life insurance. Provident fund.
Therapy will not change what happened in the past. Talking gets it off ur chest. I have talked plenty. I still have to rear and pay for two boys single handedly. Not that I don't want to do it. Just to be disgusted by the fatherlyroll described. Do u thinmk that's right. I thought the man is always the head of the household. Or has it suddenly changed as the wind blows.
Oh by the way that is only the tip of the iceberg but I am not listing them all because then I go into brissling state. I hate him with a very big passion.
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RE: Don't judge me by my past,i don't live there anymo
Ur past makes the person u r today, u cant just write it off as a bad/good experience. It happened !!! It's u !!!