I was 39, busy with my family and my own disintegrating marriage and although that remark shocked me at the time, it didn't sink in until some time later.
It was possibly a situation that your blog alludes to - my mother was divorced with five children when she met my father, he was a successful businessman and swept her off her feet..
However through my childhood I only saw what I believed was love and devotion between them both, I was the only product of their relationship and he died when I was 14.
This blog brought to mind one of my mother's unforgettable remarks during her last days on this mortal coil.. Me sitting there alongside her quietly while she nodded off..
Some people don't want to change as they think they are quite perfect. Others may disagree and suggest that this is why they are single, though desiring otherwise..
Smoking is a turnoff for me, after quitting a couple of years back - smokers taste and smell yuk.
I won't change who I am for anyone as it just does not work
Oh wait, I just noticed your cynical post re vegetarians and noted that you dwell in a country with zero animal rights.
One that skins and cooks animals while their their hearts are still beating, one that sells caged dogs in markets for food, their limbs tied behind their backs.
Funny you should say that Catfoot as this blog to me contains rhetoric, for want of a better word, that many women might think would reflect the way a lot of men feel these days.
Feminists may like to endorse that, it's kind of a patronising empathy thing that I personally do not subscribe to.
You have never come across as anything other than comfortable in your manskin, and that's a thing for other men to aspire to and women to admire.
@Og totally agree .. I find it uncomfortable reading when people disclose very personal details about their private life on here, let alone when it's in relation to someone else's ..
All I know is that every time this question has appeared on the forums, the same two or three people have popped up to say that they have
Somehow I find it ironic that they are still on the site to post their reply lol, but also acknowledge that (perhaps) many others have found their match and left the site for good
It is what it is, a million to one, just like looking for a match in everyday life
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lol
RE: A sPecial Place in my Heart.........
So beautiful, thank you Teena