Nonverbal communication is difficult to fake. That's how the verbal communication is often not in coherence with it. Mostly the nonverbal communication (gestures, postures, body movement, eye contact etc.) is subliminal, unless the person becomes concious of it and starts controlling it.
For me the communication starts with the nonverbal one first. The most important part is when the person is not aware of his/her nonverbal communicatoin. This is the shortest part available yet the most important one(First 5-10 seconds). Because, the moment verbal communcatiojn is about to start, the person tries to adjust his/her nonverbal communication accordingly.
For example, somebody coming to see me at my office, the moment he/she enters, walks down to the chair, sits, adjusts, and is about to begin the verbal communication, my job is half done. The rest I would know while having cofee and through the discussion that takes place. And I am not talking about how eloquent the person would be or how well the grammer is used. I'm more talking about how the flow of thought process is smoothly administered, and how it gels together in the verbal and non verbal communication. How well, the initiation and end is. While I'm in the process of deciphering the person, I make sure i am understood simultaneously.
I also use another tool which I call vibes, that we all emit. It does provide me with the comfort/discomfort zone. And yes, eyes are the windows of the soul
Important thing to note is the cultural differences across the globe vary. Many forms of nonverbal communication, as a silent code of conduct, are different in different parts of the world. I've seen great differences in Karachi, Dubai, Singapore, Malaysia, Thailand, London, Paris, Tashkent and many others.
A king announced he would give his kingdom and marry his daughter to a man who:
1. Defeats the state champ wrestler 2. Makes love with an 80 year old witch 3. Bring the eyes of a lion from the royal zoo.
All in 30 minutes. Or he would be beaheaded if he fails. So many people came but failed one way or the other and got beheaded.
A Gladiator came running, in a hurry. Went straight to the wretler, knocked him out in 10 seconds, than ran straight to the lions den, came out in 15 mins, and asked,
Hey Syclobs! Any name would do. Make it sound as crazy and stupid as possible. It would be much more easy for prople to remember. May be you and Makis could do some brainstorming over the weekend?
Update. I'm presently doing the PoC (Proof of Concept) of our idea. Next phase would be to meet. I'd comne over, pick Makis on the way, and then all 3 kings would make it happen. Great plan?
There only so much that one can do with unlimited money. End of the day, he would not be using all of the place he's building and all of the money he possesses. Most of it would keep lying in the banks and continue to increase. Also, He can eat to a limit, sleep to a limit, drink to a limit, travel to a limit, shop to a limit, feel rich to a limit. I think I am already there without his kind of huge money. I do everything I like. Plus I am not scared. I don't need body guards. I am content and happy.
Yet, the things I can't do at the moment, I work hard to achieve them. That make me more excited and fulfilled. I think if I had that kind of money that he has, I woouldn't have been as happy and content as I am now.
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RE: what's your opinion about Muslim women?
@ heliyaI think question here is the term 'monafeq' means a dual person.
So there are 3 signs of a dual person
1. He/She Lies
2. Never keeps a promise/word
3. Embezzles when trusted with an asset. OR Breaks Trust when trusted upon.
Regarless of religion. People are "munafeq" and true/honest all over the world, incuding you, me and everyone. A little introspection can tell us. No?
The guy who sent you the message was none other than a pea-brained Idiot.