My dear! Perhaps you are worrying too much about not finding someone. I agree with Kasih, you have to be yourself first. Feel good about yourself. And firmly believe that you WILL find the right one for you. Then see how the magic works.
You are so young and have your whole life ahead of you. From experience I would agree with Howe1 that you should get out of it if it's not emotionally and spiritually rewarding anymore. You'll see the magic then.
I am sure you are. I often get to read your comments on different blogs and really like the bluntness you possess. Not many people say it loud and are not afraid to disagree
let's appreciate the gesture and not the amount. In srilanka it's okay for 10 bux for charity. You see the purchasing power parity is different in each country. Means u can buy more stuff in Srilanka with the equivalent of 1 UK pound compared to what you can buy in England!
What was the time of the dream? Usually when you wake up after the dream and it's about dawn or a bit earlier, then the dreams usually are guide dreams. This is the time when we are actually at the deepest level of our sleep.
It's very important not to tell anyone about a bad dream speacially. You must only share with your trusted ones and well wishers. Your mom for instance or your best friend.
What i figure from your dream is that you will have a protecting force that would ensure you escape a trauma or a calamity unhurt. There will be protection for you from potential harms. So no need to be scared at all.
I think it's a very good dream. (if you woke up at Dawn)So Relax!
Yeah there are losers who are the way you depicted them. Don't be surprised to know that there are lot many who really don't want to come to US, get the passport or whatevah!
But seriously, you should mention in your profile about your preferences. Also, you can control your mail, flowers, ecards and IM settings and define exactly from where people can contact you. Try it.
Well....I agree that a "no reply" is a silent gesture of demonstrating a "NOT Interested" answer, here on CS. And I think a widely accepted and practised silent code of conduct at CS that most people understand.
Quite contrary to the real life though. But it's way better than a rude reply. I think a no reply saves you from losing grace.
I have always found the gut feeling to be quite true. Specially women have an uncanny ability of intuition that makes them feel certain things that are not there in the open.
Having said that, my suggestion would be to bring more clarity to the situatuon. You tell him how you feel and how hurting is the change in attitude has been.
Also, be courageous enough to ask him if he wants to break-up. Cos it's better to know early than to smoulder with the fear of the unpleasent unknown till you get that facts that u can get now.
Well that's a complicated comment HavinfunTX! I can sense an accute disappointment in your situation resulting from the bad experiences of your last relationship. And yes I agree with you to the extent that one should not continue to accept the utter disregard by their partners and if it cannot be corrected anymore, one should get out of such a waste-of-time/life relationship.
But I strongly disagree having no relationship at all. Just for the mere fact that you had bad experience(s).
Just like bad people, good people find you too. You just have to open your trueself snd see how the magic works for you. Simple! :)
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My dear! Perhaps you are worrying too much about not finding someone. I agree with Kasih, you have to be yourself first. Feel good about yourself. And firmly believe that you WILL find the right one for you. Then see how the magic works.