Carpe - This is a sad phase of human civilization these days. Humans are becoming more materialistic no matter how stupid it proves eventually. Resulting in being detached and alone.
It's neither a turn-on nor a turn-off. The person in question is more important. I think no one is keen to go crazy here for anyone in the longer run. I think we more like to be happy and live a purposeful, meaningful and a peaceful life with our soulmate. What you mentioned above is a mere detail of the person's life which comes as part and parcel of the relationship.
What if the woman (soulmate) has children from the prior relationship? I don't think that should undermine the strangth of my liking towards that woman. In fact, if my love is true and strong for her, I would be similarly concerned about her kids, if not more, like she is. Why? cos I love her. Simple!
Eventually, I totally disagree with the logic of your comparison above. I think it would be shallow if I think like that, as a man.
What I would want in a woman? Let's keep it for some other day!
Hatred begets hatred! Own the investment of your emotions that you are making (in hatred) and stop whining about it please. Continue hating and reach nowhere.
Yes. I agree chemistry works. In fact it's the only thing that matters in the end. I believe it starts with the VIBES (if you believe in it) that make you comfortable with certain people. Then, chemistry comes in, once you have started interaction.
I don't know how it happens. But I agree it does happen. Also, I know it doesn't lie. No one can prentend vibes and chemistry. It happens when it happens.
I don't understand something here. Becoming friends is not like putting the light bulb on. Press the button and your are friends. Friendship is like a plant growing effortlessly. Once the seed is there, with favorable conditions, it grows slowly with one bud, then further, consistently, and then one day it's a tree. You try to make it grow in a day, it will die.
Exchange of a few mails is enough evidence in itself that you are initiating the process of becoming friends and they are responding. So you must not push it to become a strong tree in a flash. It will never happen.
Don't make too much an effort that is not needed.
Move with the flow, be patient, don't press people, give room, let them have their space, don't ask too much. And you'll have friends before you know it.
Eventually, birds of a feather, flock together. So you will meet likeminded people I am sure.
You blog just made me go back and revisit certain precious memories with my friends. It's quite true that most joyful experiences of life occured with the most immaterial and small things that we (friends) shared together.
It's sad that as we all grew up and carried on with our lives we got lost somewhere in life's hustle bustle, making money, career, advanced education and more responsibilities etc. We stopped making time for eachtoher the way we used to.
I'm however glad that I still managed to sustain certain friends, and sad that some friendships are no more there. However, I am satisfied that the best investment I ever made was in human capital. My time in my friends. That time would always be so precious. Irreplaceable. Priceless.
You think good. So you write well. Perhaps, some day you may want to collate your blogs and bring it in the form of a published book. Seriously, Think about it.
Right now you are earning the most valuable asset that would help you all your life. Masters. So plese don't be upset. When you start making money, take good care of your parents and take them for vacations.
Your list above reminds me of my list of 100 things to do before I die. You may try making one too.
Just right outside any hotel's main entrance. Stop your car. That "good" man will come and open the door. Again that "good" man will also open the door when you are going back home. All without telling him what he should do. Just make sure you tip him well!
You may choose to love him too if he loves you back and promises to continue opening doors always.
Well....the reality is that women and men, both, want want and want. One thing or the other in thier partners. You asked what women want, my question is do "exactly" you know what do you want?
First, you may start with the way you project yourself in the real and virtual world.
It's may be the way you think, dress up, carry yourself, speak, write and the choices you make. Don't push too hard to be understood. You have to understand first and then look to be understood.
When you are being understood properly (not misunderstood) after you have learned to understand, you will get your desired flow of responses. Try it!
Yes. Anything is possible my dear friend. And I have seen in working as well. The vice versa too. And specially for you, I think the probability would always remain very high!
Considering the fact that there are 6.5 billion people on earth. If there are 12 signs, there would be 541 million people alike for each star sign. I consider that a distant probability. In fact, I find star signs often misleading.
Perhaps some traits on a very generalised perspective might be grouped to a star sign, but I am never sure.
On the contrary, my REAL experience, so far, of meeting people from across the globe is that every individual is unique and different from any other peron in the world.
So I prefer understanding people as they are and not merely by their star signs. It works better for me this way.
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