Independent woman, a turn on or a turn off ?
Do an independent woman turn youu men on ? . . . . . .or turn you off ? . . . . . . .
How much independent is it that you men expect in us?
Will fixing our car by our self be a problem for you?
Or not have to be bothered with what to do calls because we know exactly what to do will make you men crazy for us?
And that we simply do everything by our self and dont have much time for you guys because we are too a work-a-hollic, made you feel a little bit left out?
Or. . .
Is a fragille and feminim girl,with her soft curly hair,floral dress,her soft words,her i love you notes,her apple pie and her tears at a sad old movie really really makes you men wants to protect her? To love her ?
When you say you want the woman in us. . .
What quality is it that your looking for exactly?
Which type you prefer guys?
Comments (19)
I think it depends on the guy though...some are intimidated by it, and some love it because it gives them their freedom also...
Personally, I like women who are independent in their thinking, capable of making the choice to be with someone or not. However, once the choice is made then I am looking for collaboration and compromise, can a truly independent person do that?
Well, I will tell you they do exist! I think all independent women have a soft side.....
Being independent doesnt always translate into being more masculine
I know they do exist and this is what keeps me searching lol.. May I just say that I always enjoy reading your posts, always very insightful.. Oh and God I miss the west coast of Fla...
It's neither a turn-on nor a turn-off. The person in question is more important. I think no one is keen to go crazy here for anyone in the longer run. I think we more like to be happy and live a purposeful, meaningful and a peaceful life with our soulmate. What you mentioned above is a mere detail of the person's life which comes as part and parcel of the relationship.
What if the woman (soulmate) has children from the prior relationship? I don't think that should undermine the strangth of my liking towards that woman. In fact, if my love is true and strong for her, I would be similarly concerned about her kids, if not more, like she is. Why? cos I love her. Simple!
Eventually, I totally disagree with the logic of your comparison above. I think it would be shallow if I think like that, as a man.
What I would want in a woman? Let's keep it for some other day!
The following was found in the forums and speaks for co-existence.
Isn't love what people are looking for and isn't love other-centered instead of self-centered?
"Romantic love, in my view, is about achieving a union. A true, deep, and healthy union doesn't require a list of "medical warnings" like "no drama" or "my independence must be respected." It's not about two people co-existing, in other words, but about two people bonding, being together. Two is better than one kind of deal"
I think your thoughts of what independence is, is really messed up. So if a girl wears a dress and cries at movies she and speaks softly she isn't independent?
I think you need help with what independence and sensitivity is. Also just because you live like you don't need anyone doesn't mean you are healthy. In fact people like that are terrible in relationships because they go out of their way to show people they are hard and insensitive and dont' need anyone.
You have things to learn I think
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Well, about the topic. Not sure what's really mean by independent. I always think I'm an independent woman (if you really know me in real life, you might say that. haha!) but the matters is I can't drive. Even thought I can take care of myself and sometime to go somewhere people like to drive for me but still feel better if can drive right? Next thing is I'm bad and impatient in fixing things. So, not sure is it include into the category? {smile}