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Mar 24, 2009

RE: American and North American women welcome here!!

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Mar 24, 2009

RE: I just found out my grandma is dying!

Prayers and positive energy coming your way.

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Mar 20, 2009

RE: Forty Lashes for a 75-year-old Woman for ‘Mingling' with Men

So much for Feeding the Widows and Children.

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Mar 20, 2009

RE: Dreams interpreted

Campus Closing, I will try this tomorrow.

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Mar 20, 2009

Doc, I am Sorry this has happened to you. I hope you will find that even though it is a Challenge, G-d has wonderful things in store for you.

I too, Know how frustrating this is, having been there in a different capacity, with my own medical situations.

Please hang in thereand trust, there is a Higher Purpose for everything.

As with everyoneelse, You can count me as a friend, email anytime.

Cyndie

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Mar 19, 2009

RE: Official Instructions for driving in NJ

I heard from a friend that grew up in NJ, to forget you know how to fill your car up when I ever bet a chance to visit her, it is illegal to fill up your own car there

This is news to a person whom lives in a state where full service has for all extents and purposes disappeared.

Here in Ohio, there is a sign about the size of a 3x5 saying if you need assistance press this button. After one of my surgeries, I was heading in to have stitches removed, pressed button then found out it activated an AUDIO inside and the clerk was asking what I needed. Being Deaf I did not know that. Just after about 15 mins I crept in holding my abdomen then found out- no one offered to come out and fill my tank for me.

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Mar 15, 2009

RE: Was I rude and how can I prevent this from happening again

Also, he agreed to the possibility this would happen. He is the rude one not you. He is the onme that lost out- you got lucky and found out what he was about.

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Mar 15, 2009

RE: Was I rude and how can I prevent this from happening again

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?

You are welcome!

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?

[quote=Polarbutterfly]"In my opinion,I feel comfortable with who I am;
I love me,therefore I feel attractive."[/quote] Wise Words.

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: The 'Other Person'

Laura, we all have much to learn from you too, Sweetie, and from each other.

I understand what you mean. For me, it was a choice I could make out of gratitude for her being willing to share that with me, even though it hurt.

She could have never told me. But tell me she did.

It must have hurt her to know that he never stopped loving me. I hurt for her when she told me that as, I did when he asked me to take him back. It also must have hurt him to know that he still loved me and had thrown what we had away. . .I had no wish to do to her what they had done to me.

It is something that only we can decide if and when it is right to reach out a hand in both Forgiveness and Friendship.

Also, it was his fueral, I think he was there and grateful for the two of us offfering both comfort and the truth to each other.

Our best friend, one of John's former rommies said he had never been able to imagine John as an old man the whole time he had kown him.

Whereas His wife, whom came into the picture after John and I were married and became my best friend, said that she had been able to do so and b/c of his Drug/Alcohol problems and the way he tried to come back to me, said that she always felt if John had lived there would have been 5 to 7 ex-wives at his funeral and that he would have always been looking for me in every one of them, b/c He told them the same thing, word for word that his wife told me.

Looks like my Aunt was right. . .poor John.

But even more so, perhaps it was a Blessing in disguise b/c His Little Baby Girl could grow up w/o that knowledge.

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: The 'Other Person'

When My Late Ex died. I went to his funeral, with the Blessings of my former In-Laws. I met his current wife. I was shocked at how much like me she looked, we could have been sisters!

She told me She wanted me to know that John had never stopped Loving me. It was just that our Infertility together was not something he felt he could handle, as he wanted a family. She saiod it was our infertility that really made him use drugs and alcohol. They also had three miscarriages, before they got their Daughter.

She also knew that he had asked me if I would take him back ~ 3 months before He died and she knew that I ahad said No, he had a child and he needed to exhaust all options with her Mother to make it first.

She thanked me for that and appologised for having hurt me by being the other woman and taking him away from me.

I was grateful to hear everything she told me and I thanked her for it and for letting me come to his Funeral. I also told her I was glad she had been able to give him something I had not been able to do, But I was sorry that their little Girl would be grrowing up with out her wonderful Dad.

It hurt, yes . . . But it also helped.

My aunt told me later when I told her that His new wife looked so much like me that she could have been my sister more than my own sisters do, and how shocked I was, Said that she was not surprised b/c people often want and look for what they already have.

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: Men Are Confusing

You just said it, Sweetie. Never change yourself. Always be true to whom you are and your beliefs.

I hope you did not compound the mistake by sleeping with him. You have just had a harsh, cruel lesson. I am so sorry.

Men have more respect for us when we stay true to our beliefs, personal Code, and Principles even if they tell us otherwise at the time.

My Father taught me to never let a man tell you what to do.

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: Country living in the great outdoors, as fishing, hiking, enjoying Nature

Well, for me, it's in my Profile. I am a Country Girl for open outdoors living. I hate City Life.

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: On dating sites, do you women like to see photos of men barechested?

Now, You guys do!!!

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: On dating sites, do you women like to see photos of men barechested?

Personally, if the chest is ALL that is bared, either on a beach or b/c it is summer and he's outside, I don't have a problem. The ones that set me back are the total nudies or the ones with the shirts opened to mid belly, ugh!

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: On dating sites, do you women like to see photos of men barechested?

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: Why do Turkey members get such a hard time.

The right woman.

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: Women love dating......

Good men with good values and a positive direction, Absolutely!!!!

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: What type of wife/Husband are you looking?

Meaning What?

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: How did you come up with your username?

Cool Sweet!!! That is Wonderful!!!

It is, also, always wonderful to learn that friends have the same talents!

And yes, You will remember how to play, it DOES come back.

I was the only Tenor/BariSax Player inb HS/College, even though I am deaf. Hugs to a fellow band member.

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: Have you ever gone: "why can't I be normal?" really meaning it?

When I was a deaf child, yes. As an adult only when my medical issues would get to me otherwis, no because I know there is a reason for everything.

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Mar 14, 2009

RE: How did you come up with your username?

I play Tenor, BAritone, Alto Sax, Clarinet, English Horn, Oboe, some flute, 12 string Guitar and Bassoon. Would love to try a Bass Sax Before I die. Would also love to learn Violin, and Banjo,

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Mar 13, 2009

RE: DUBAI MAN HAS 86 KIDS

Hello, Mrali, my friend, How are you?

Question about your post though, Is that, also, only with the consent of the first wife?

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Mar 12, 2009

RE: What type of wife/Husband are you looking?

The last category in the poll says it all.

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Mar 12, 2009

RE: What kind of animals do u have?

Three Dogs Sarah 12: Min. Schnauzer, Zoriah 2: English Lab/Leopard Cur, Zhammanah 1: American Lab/Pointer, Assorted Cats, Two Rabbits: All my Babies!!!!!

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Mar 12, 2009

RE: Another Chance

Absolutely. I second this. It takes time to demonstrate it as well.

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Mar 12, 2009

RE: Advice for a mother in despair

Very wise advice.

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Mar 12, 2009

RE: toy boy

He has a Kilt on??????? I missed that!!!! lemme see. . . .Running back to OP's profile,

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Mar 12, 2009

RE: I'm bored

It has been boring here lately. I'm bummed too.[/color

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This is a list of forum posts created by CjTenorSax.

CjTenorSax Forum Posts (5,082)

RE: American and North American women welcome here!!

RE: I just found out my grandma is dying!

RE: Forty Lashes for a 75-year-old Woman for ‘Mingling' with Men

RE: Dreams interpreted

RE: Life has changed for sure

RE: Official Instructions for driving in NJ

RE: Was I rude and how can I prevent this from happening again

RE: Was I rude and how can I prevent this from happening again

RE: Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?

RE: Do you think you're attractive (good looking)?

RE: The 'Other Person'

RE: The 'Other Person'

RE: Men Are Confusing

RE: Country living in the great outdoors, as fishing, hiking, enjoying Nature

RE: On dating sites, do you women like to see photos of men barechested?

RE: On dating sites, do you women like to see photos of men barechested?

RE: On dating sites, do you women like to see photos of men barechested?

RE: Why do Turkey members get such a hard time.

RE: Women love dating......

RE: What type of wife/Husband are you looking?

RE: How did you come up with your username?

RE: Have you ever gone: "why can't I be normal?" really meaning it?

RE: How did you come up with your username?

RE: DUBAI MAN HAS 86 KIDS

RE: What type of wife/Husband are you looking?

RE: What kind of animals do u have?

RE: Another Chance

RE: Advice for a mother in despair

RE: toy boy

RE: I'm bored

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