It does help me to understand why the divorces traumatized me so bad. My best friend turned into my worse enemy. To me that was the nightmare of the divorce. It took time to happen but that is what happened and I contributed to the destruction of my marriage. It helps me a lot to understand that now.
I am glad that you got something out of it because in other threads it talks of baggage going into a next relationship. Since I realized that I was at fault a lot of times through the ways mentioned then my faults could damage a future relationship. I prove my ex's point therefore I am insane, lol. Oh my that is scary.
At one time Moses and the Pharisees were hitting it off pretty good. I liked Moses' brother Aaron. Moses had a speech impediment and Aaron got to speak for him. I would love to have one of those staffs that was used on the Red sea parting. I think they would be great in heavy traffic. Instead of being in bumper to bumper traffic you just throw the staff down and bam all the traffic is gone.
You can stalk me any time. I am naturally paranid. Remembering that line from "The Little Mermaid", "You shouldn't lurk around in doorways people might question your upbringing." Too pushy for a woman, hmm. I think that is a contradiction in terms for some men in here if it is a woman being pushy to have a relationship because I think there is a lot of guys in here that want a relationship with a woman. Too eager? lmao. Too cautious is normal in here. I can understand you but then I am paranoid, too.
I just got back from one. One of our new ladies to the group who is also a widow is having trouble with demons. We talked with her for about a hour after the meeting. A sponsor volunteered to sponsor her real quick like. Her new sponsor is making sure she is going to meetings because we don't want to lose her as our little group is small enough at that place. We convinced her to quit watching some of those horror films for a while and some of that acid rock stuff just until she can get a grip on things. Man she was in tears. I told her I had to get rid of my old bed because of having three people die in this house. Others talked to her in diferent ways. She felt better when she left but we loaded her down with phone numbers and her new sponsor is on the job.
My good friend Nene helped me with that one. Accepting what you just said would have eliminated a lot of problems I had with my ex. I asked what would have if I just said how I was feeling. Like if I am angry just say I am angry to begin with. I have found the emotional state a person is in has an affect on their perception. If I am angry I can view things from an irrational state than if I am not angry. I am more rational when I am not angry. In the words of The Incredible Hulk, "Don't make me angry. You won't like me when I am angry." Plus replacing all those clothes when I finally get calmed down gets expensive. I could get charged for public nudity, too. I was ad libbing on the last part, sorry.
Guns don't kill people; People kill people. Christians don't kill people; People kill people. Hmm, I can convert you to Christianity or convert you to a corpse. Hmm, is there a third option, lol? I will take what is behind door number three. Its officer O'malley. You've been busted. Sorry old Cheech and Chong tape I had of their wedding album.
Love you, too, Paws. Great thread. I am a hypocrite that is another reason for the slider in my screen name for backslider. I have had to stay out of some threads because I had to figure what was my ulterior motive like to prove a point; make myself look better; appease my enormous ego or what. My dad was Aquarius so I can understand when he made the statement of beliving that everyone should be able to go to hell the way they want to. Mom is a holy roller and dad was an athiest. No wonder I am so screwed up, lmao.
Me, too. I have had to take a look at myself because after the anger was over with my ex and I stopped trying to win the argument I realized that some points she was actually agreeing with some things I said and other times she was right. My problem was I hated to stop arguing even after I knew I was wrong in some cases. I figure why stop arguing just because she was right. Hell, in some case it was the only way we could communicate. We got to snarling like two dogs fighting over the same bone both having an end of it in our mouths. I figured why stop a good argument just for the sake of stopping fighting. I am glad I am out of that relationships for my sake and hers.
Sure makes it easier on the head, lol. Aw, where the strait jackets are nice and tight and the walls are so soft, lol. Nothing like this Romper Room, lol.
I used to cringe when going through the drive through with my deceased or ex. Trying to remember all what everyone especially when you have family wants. I would rather go in. I am sorry I thought you said Dr. Pepper. No, I wanted Diet Pepsi. Where is my freaking straw. Go back I want my straw. Where are my french fries? I am not eating the fish sandwich because it is cold. It got so bad this one time the lady I was with in this one place that she went in the kitchen and showed them how to make a cheeseburger. Now you put the buns down, got that? Yes, m'am. Ok, let me know if I am going to fast for you. Yes m'am. Now cook the meat. Wait till it is cooked before you put it on the bun. Yes m'am. Now slice this tomato. Yes m'am. Ok, m'am. so the next time I come here you will know how to make a cheeseburger? Yes, m'am. Good.
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RE: Why is it that evryone on this site jumps at any chance to promote hatred
It does help me to understand why the divorces traumatized me so bad. My best friend turned into my worse enemy. To me that was the nightmare of the divorce. It took time to happen but that is what happened and I contributed to the destruction of my marriage. It helps me a lot to understand that now.