Personally I never invite a woman for dinner in a restaurant, instead I invite her back to my bedsit, where I give her beans on toast washed down by lashings of tap water.
To be honest it's the sort of thing you want to do once only! besides I've a fairly serious problem with my neck so that would rule it out. (sounds like I'm looking for excuses doesn't it lol). But if you do I'll be happy to be there as ehm....moral support?
Hi M, I did one many years ago when I was younger and braver and I can't recommend it highly enough. You'll get a fantastic buzz from it. If you go ahead you can rely on me to give you a contribution!
It doesn't matter whether it's chicken feed or not, the principle is the same and it can't be one law for the rich and one for the poor. Not that someone who is working and signing on at the same time is poor in the first place.
During the boom when there was full employment there were still about one hundred thousend people on the dole. Plenty of people don't want to work, or want to work and sign on at the same time.
RE: On a first date ....
Same with me, us guys don't usually even notice!