why are you comforting me fireliter? You have to take your chances. Maybe I won't meet him for a while. Maybe I won't meet him at all. But I think I will take it slow. He seems different to me than a lot of men I have known....he loves to talk and can listen to anything I want to tell him, but I fear...but I guess some fear is normal if you step out of your comfort zone. But I believe fear has caused me to sabatoge good things before too. It was easier than taking the chance of getting hurt.
I am feeling it with someone right now. He lives in my state so there is a chance we will meet but I am not making any plans for the future because life holds no gaurantees and I don't know where it might lead.
Does anyone have any experience here? Can you have amazing chemistry with a person when you have not met them yet? Is it possible that through pictures, IM's and VERY long phone conversations, you can feel this awsome connection with another person? I keep thinking about blind people who can never even see each other.
sure love still exist, you just have to find someone with the same values. I have this on my profile...
I believe that Love is natural, good, and free...the truth of Love is freedom. Love makes us want to be a better person and when it is recipricated it feels good.
but you have to know what you want and what makes you feel good first.
name 5 things or characteristics that would make a greatt relationship for you. Use 5 words only in the order of importance to you and if care to, explain why you chose those 5 things. nothing long and drawn out, just short and sweet. please select a variety if you can just don't agree with someone else. I would like to see different ones from both the ladies and gettlemen please.
Example Love honesty trust communication affection--we all need it
A first-grade teacher, Ms. Brooks, was having trouble with one of her students. The teacher asked, "Harry, what's your problem?"
Harry answered, "I'm too smart for the 1st grade. My sister is in the 3rd grade and I'm smarter than she is! I think I should be in the 3rd grade too!"
Ms. Brooks had had enough. She took Harry to the principal's office.
While Harry waited in the outer office, the teacher explained to the principal what the situation was. The principal told Ms. Brooks he would give the boy a test. If he failed to answer any of his questions he was to go back to the 1st grade and behave. She agreed.
Harry was brought in and the conditions were e xplained to him and he agreed to take the test.
Principal: "What is 3 x 3?"
Harry: "9."
Principal: "What is 6 x 6?"
Harry: "36."
And so it went with every question the principal thought a 3rd grader should know.
The principal looks at Ms. Brooks and tells her, "I think Harry can go to the 3rd grade."
Ms. Brooks says to the principal, "Let me ask him some questions."
The principal and Harry both agreed.
Ms. Brooks asks, "What does a cow have four of that I have only two of?"
Harry, after a moment: "Legs."
Ms. Brooks: "What is in your pants that you have but I do not have?"
The principal wondered why would she ask such a question!
Harry replied: "Pockets."
Ms. Brooks: "What does a dog do that a man steps in to?"
Harry: "Pants."
Ms. Brooks: What starts with a C, ends with a T, is hairy, oval, delicious and contains thin, whitish liquid?"
Harry: "Coconut."
The principal sat forward with his mouth hanging open.
Ms. Brooks: "What goes in hard and pink then comes out soft and sticky?"
The principal's eyes opened really wide and before he could stop the answer, Harry replied, "Bubble gum."
Ms. Brooks: "What does a man do standing up, a woman does sitting down and a dog does on three legs?"
Harry: "Shake hands."
The principal was trembling.
Ms. Brooks: "What word starts with an 'F' and ends in 'K' that means a lot of heat and excitement?"
Harry: "Firetruck."
The principal breathed a sigh of relief and told the teacher, "Put Harry in the fifth-grade, I got the last seven questions wrong......
When I am in love, so many poems and so many songs can describe the way I feel. I think love is full of energy and other's expressions and creativity of love energy become more meaningful to me when I am experiencing love. This is what makes me feel that we are all connected by a loving energy. When you hear your feelings described by another in a poem or a song or a quote, you know that others have had the same experiences and you feel more a live. Love has many expressions and is very creative and it brings you to life to explore and experience Love's gifts, they are within you too, so you are moved to find your own expression and creativity of Love.
And that again is your opinion...some people are spiritual everyday of their life. Some of the most compassionate people are not talkers but doers. So they are moved into action. And then there are the believers who do nothing but talk and try to force their beliefs on you...I don't like it when people try to force their beliefs on me, so I guess I feel the same about non-believers who try to force their beliefs on others. I don't believe in the Bible literally, but aren't we all different? Haven't we all had different experiences and are entitled to think, act and live our own lives? You say you know there is no God...I say I know there is a God. Neither of have proof. If you choose not to believe in God that is fine with me.
I hear everything you say about there not being a God and it is not because I fear living without an imagainary friend, it is because I have free choice and I choose to believe in a loving force in the world based on my own spiritual experiences. I don't understand what makes you think you are so right and righteous in your belief that there is no God. Everyone has choices, from the beginning of time when man made the Bible to explain what he didn't understand. The Bible was made by man, and I don't fully trust anything that men have had their hands on. But just because they didn't understand God, does not mean that God never existed. And it doesn't mean that the Bible didn't have something to offer the heitherns of time or the basically good people with their own understanding. We are all entitled to our own understanding.
I really don't understand why you waste your time as a good human being trying to prove your beliefs that there isn't a God. I really don't think you are changing anyone's views...I know you haven't or you won't change mine. All I can tell by reading is there seems to be a need for superiority and righteosness, which are the same things I don't like about the believers who want to conform me. Is it the same reason...based on fear....that makes for an egoist. A selfish person who only thinks of themselves and trys to control others to boost their own ego. Are you in search of the truth? I agree that people do have their own truths inside of them and we each have our own paths and will face our truths when we are ready. To thine own self be true. That is the most important truth there is in my opinion. That is what makes people better.
What do the buddist say or tieabin I know I misspelled it
In the end the most important thing is
how well did you live how well did you love how well did you learn to let go.
Letting go to me, means letting other people find their own way and not trying to conform them to your beliefs as if. But to stay in this thread makes me as guilty as anyone else so I will leave. Peace to you all.
No Trish, let's not turn things around...I said that you non believers may someday believe just like you are trying to tell the believers not to believe, and then you said
honey - i dont know you - i sure didnt question you - what i questioned was your cruel and thoughtless supposition
What was cruel and thoughtless about saying that you may someday turn to a God...I don't think it is anymore cruel and thoughtless as trying to conform people who believe differently than you do. So don't try to turn the superiority act around on me.
Cruel and thoughtless is that you can tell people that what they believe is ridiculous and based on myths, so what if it is?Isn't there better things you could be doing as a good human being?
Don't question me, I can't tell ya how to believe or if you will ever believe....just like you can't tell anyone or convince anyone that they should not believe. I am sorry for the loss of your daughter though.
All you non believers need to have a spirtual awakening. If it ever gets dark enough in your life, you will probably be calling on God. I learned in these questioning of God threads that I don't have to give anyone an explanation for my belief. I don't believe...I know there is a God.
Dang! Are you in love now? I read this and I thought, damn bulldog just tell it like it is...I was just a little surprised cos you are the one who is usually telling the jokes and here you are speaking the truth. Well you are just always surprising me, but you never really had me fooled, I always knew you were a hopeless romantic. You know I love ya, and I'm honored to call you my friend.
Tonights the night were gonna make it happen Tonight well put all other things aside Give in this time and show me some affection Were going for those pleasures in the night I want to love you, feel you Wrap myself around you I want to squeeze you, please you I just cant get enough And if you move real slow, Ill let it go Im so excited, and I just cant hide it Im about to lose control and I think I like it Im so excited, and I just cant hide it And I know, I know, I know, I know I know I want you We shouldnt even think about tomorrow Sweet memories will last a long long time Well have a good time baby dont you worry And if were still playing around boy thats just fine Lets get excited, we just cant hide it Im about to lose control and I think I like it Im so excited, and I just cant hide it And I know, I know, I know, I know I know I want you, want you I want to love you, feel you Wrap myself around you I want to squeeze you, please you I just cant get enough And if you move real slow, Ill let it go Im so excited, and I just cant hide it Im about to lose control and I think I like it Im so excited, and I just cant hide it And I know, I know, I know, I know I know I want you Im so excited &;#40;look what you do to me) And I just cant hide it (you got me burning up) Im about to lose control and I think I like it Im so excited (look what you do to me) And I just cant hide it (Im about to give it up) And I know, I know, I know, I know I know I want you [repeat to fade]
I never had any thought of getting with him so there is nothing for me to get over. But it still seems wrong for you to be making public accusations based on rumors that he is married.
nobody's getting my man burt...if I have to I will put a pic up of britney spears but i know there is another actress he likes but I can't recall her name.
Hey, you're not invisible...I see your pic and always enjoy your post. You are intelligent, kind and with a sense of humor...that stands out to me. Actually, it was your intelligence that I first noticed about you and then later I realized he has a nice sense of humor. CS is like Cheers where everybody knows your name...just be yourself like you always are and trust me you are not invisible here.
Can you have amazing chemistry with someone you have never met?
okay, keep comforting me....I am opening up to you....let me comfort you too.