naw... i got her trained just right.... it aint hard... kinda like training a dog to sit... you just gotta find the right reward... and then.... poof instant flatulence control !!!!!
dude... just like people have said... just be yourself.... learn to hit it and quit it and you'll be alright !!!
bottom line is women are disposable and there aint many worth keeping around for when you keep one she will inevitably turn into the Devil !!!!! thus dont even get emotionally involved with any of them and you'll be fine !!!!!!
and i know for a fact that most (if not ALL women out there will agree with you) yet
when we are not NEEDY and yall dont get a call for a day or two, yall get bent out of shape and accuse us that we "dont care about ya"
... and when we come up with a surprise trip or date or event, yall complain that it wasnt "planned properly" or we didnt give ya "enough notice"
AND.... if we are not BOORISh and have our eyes on ya ONLY, yall start saying we are "creepy", "clingy" or "have something otherwise wrong with us"... or worse yet, yall point out another chick and ask the ever deadly "what do you think about her body?" question...
AND... if we arent cheap and ALWAYS pay, have a nice car, nice clothes and buy you stuff, then you'll say that we are "materialistic" or too into "appearances and money"
AND.... if DONT argue and agree with all yall say... or god forbid we are quiet and listen to yall, then we are too "doormatish" and lacking of a spine!!!!!!
lets face it... yall are too damn conceited and think that your man should be a damn freaking perfect freak of some sort and thus yall are unable to deal with even the slightest imperfection !!!
guys, how many times have we heard the old: "you know... you are a great and very handsome guy, but you know... i just like a guy to be taller, or darker or, better off financially or (insert "deficiency" here)????
fact is... more men get turned down by women than women get turned down by men..... !!!!
im not dissecting it... im just trying to understand how people establish those relationships....
what made you share those details with them? how did you build the pressumably required trust? did you know them and then became separated or did you just build the relationship without ever meeting in person?? are you the kind of person that "wears your heart on your sleeve" thus able to share stuff easily? or do you need to know them first? and if you do, how well do you need to know someone to share those things?
i agree with you completely... but this is not about defining friendship... its about MAKING or DEVELOPING said friendships...
all im saying is that a lot people seem to take the concept lightly in terms of who they call a friend and more importantly that many of those people seem to be able to build the relationship easily and with minimal effort and time invested...
hell that way we can all bring something to the party.... one can bring the body heat, another the aspirins, and i'll be in charge of providing the sausage !!!!
MetalMilitia Forum Posts (576)
RE: tired of being a nice kinda guy...
belief has nothing to do with it... for i speak the TRUTH !!!!!!!