They are ugly, to be sure, particularly here in CA. At least personally, the impact on myself is minimal, having a car that is good on gas and two bikes. That, and living some three miles from the office helps.
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And for the record, was never "for it." Nor whining. That's the problem with expressing your views, there's always someone that will get in your face for doing so.
RE: 40 something and never been married
Thank you.