Ah Gads!! It crazy...all the "Im Worth it" ads on a serious note though...I dont know what I would do if I lost my hair...seems supervicial given that you have survived cancer and lived to tell the tale. I like the feeling of it on my naked back...weird ....yep
If a person wanted to reject you...they were not the person for you in the first place I know when I am feelig blue about how I look at the moment...on lots os steroids I made a mistake of saying that I look like a little fat dwarf..."Him Indoors" replied "Yep, but your my wee fat dwarf"
I was then expecting him to contradict me Now its an endearnment
For me: having a poor me moment a few years back when having a natter with some friends....complaining that I have difficulty with my family and feel very left out....respsnse to that from my friends...you leave yourself out alot of the times, instead of waiting for them to come to you, approach them and see how it goes..
The lighbulbe finally went off in my head and I realised that I do it with everyone...and made a change.......It didnt work with my family (they are inconsistent), would have to say that I am not that close to them...
On the other hand my friends have gotten to know me better and are no ready to step in and give me a kick up the bum when I need it...seems I intimidated them at that time because I was sooooooooooooo uptight and independant....operative word being "was"
The journey can be scary yet.......rewarding when you can have others to carry you when you get tired, to kick you up the bum when you need to get a move on, to laugh with you or even at you if needed...........
RE: Being Bald
Nice...real nice