Of course you have to support your ex and the mother of your children, quite apart from which, she's a human being, a real live person.
Your CS virtual partner can disappear tomorrow, as they frequently do. What has a few e-mails and telephone calls got to do with a decision that affects the lives of your sons.
Your boys want you to attend! Of course they do, "they" are the innocent victims of the divorce, if the truth be known, they want Mum and Dad back together again, they want to turn the clock back and live a normal family life again.
They and they alone, deserve your most urgent consideration and the hell to anyone who thinks otherwise.
That's kind of sad, for God's sake don't take this as rubbing salt into the wounds, it's not meant to be that way.
You are, by all accounts, a truly nice guy, young, good looking and the quality of your written English is better than most.
I sometimes post with flippancy and have been called to task for it on a few of occasions. It's almost expected of you on here. Some like it and some don't. But I don't give a tinker's cuss, it’s my style, I'm looking for that certain something and I'll find it. It’s elusive, but it’s there. When I find it, grit and determination to win her over, will take the place of flippancy.
So far, I've met 4 people from CS, it took considerably more than 15/20 mails to achieve that number of face to face meetings and quite a few scam attempts in the process. Scams? My nose for them now, is better than a truffle sniffing dog!
So here's a bit of advice on a take or leave it basis: There are thousands of very attractive women on here, one of them, just one of them, is for you. Statistically, It’s the numbers game, by my assessment, the ratio is around 2% positive responses for every 100 outgoing mails or flowers and then it narrows down to half a percent to set up a meeting.
You have some way to go and women don’t like wussies, (your present company excluded) they want to see some positive intent, so crank up the action, forget the negativity and get out there.
Good thinking, why didn't I come up with that?....Henceforth, I shall be known as “Alpha Male”, all challengers will be required to confront me “after” the rutting season....Don’t wanna get my hide tanned...
paddy123 Forum Posts (1,551)
RE: how to win the heart of a girl
Put your bank account in joint names...cynical?...yep.....