"Natural disasters and terrorism are being blamed on gays, abortionists and who knows who else. That's destructive thinking prohibiting progress and problem solving".
I would like to debate this issue with you and take you up on a few unconnected and irrational statements such as the one above.
But my dog Paddy has gone walkabout and on top of that, I have a nine hour drive tomorrow to be in Court for a Client. Perhaps we can come back to it on my return.
That rascal Paddy always seems to sense that I'm off somewhere, when he does his disappearing act!.........
But, number one is: Ask for a mail address following the exchange of a few mails on here, then ask for further personal dated photos, then ask for pics of where they live and go from there.
Oh! Number two, speak to them, yes, speak to them on MSN or Skype. Amazing, just how revealing this can be.
The very fact that you have chosen to start a thread on the subject, is demeaning and self deprecating, don't even think of entering that mindset.
That old chestnut of "you're as old as you feel", was never more appropriate as in your own case.
If nothing else, CS is source of interesting information and a means of communication, for people who spend more time than they should, on their own.
In this regard, the facts speak for themselves; look at the number of attractive young women on here who are without a partner. I find it an extraordinary example of the times we live in
I hope you will find a partner on here, with 1000's of members on line at any one time, it’s the numbers game. Keep your chin up and keep trying.
Whilst my initial paragraph might at first, seem harsh, it’s not meant be, just simply realistic and frank as your thread demands. If it shakes you out of your apparent complacency, it’s done it’ job.
Bye.........
Off for a four day trip........