It obviously wasn't simple enough for you to get it Dee, I don't need to "pick" anything from anyone... Where is the humour in saying I only had three situation where I had to speak up...for six years, does it sound to you like I am a blood thirsty person and does it sound like a personal matter? I wouldn't hesitate to address you directly if I had anything personal against you. Go back and slowly read my post again, your interpretation is bordering with nonsense. I am sure most people on here will understand what I said and why I said it... Anyway, like someone recently said "If you don't get it you won't get it"...
Don't try and make it personal Dee... I am pointing at your hypocrisy and indirectly mocking others who happen to have a different from yours opinion... Starting an argument with whoever isn't my cup of tea, for nearly six years on here I had three situation where I found necessary to speak up and one of them is with you... Please, don't make me search for your comments, your memory isn't that short I believe... Save me your patronising tune and have in mind that there are people of different types and characters on here and you can not treat them like adolescents...which you do excessively... I hope this is easy enough for you to assimilate... But if you want to have the last word, be my guest...
Well, Dee, light hearted banter and cheekiness are way apart from vicious and abusive language... There's nothing lady like in a woman that falls to the lowest and is proud of it... Don't underestimate your fellow posters, we can read and make conclusions for ourselves...
I mainly use it to read, update on work related technology and research... I buy, sell, advertise, consult... I obviously waste a little of my time on here... Nothing too dramatic or life threatening...
Well, sorry for not living up to your fairytail expectations Maya... Grown up people understand that relationships are based on much more than a butterfy in the stomach and holding hands... It doesn't mean we are romantically handicaped...
Not trying to bite your head off but take a look at all your threads and responces...you might see my point eventually...
My deepest condolences Riz, Let the pride of the long and remarkable life of your dad take over the sorrow... A life like this should be celebrated ... Be strong ...
It's a tricky one... Sometimes the truth can destroy innocent people, they don't deserve it for sure... The truth finds its way sooner or later...It all depends on what we want to achieve and can me let go when it will cause more harm than justice... It's not a yes or no question...
Does he love you? Do you live together, have children, are you married? Many questions to consider... He has another woman but it doesn't seem to bother you much, why do you want him back? Are you financially dependent on him? If the answer to the questions is more No than Yes, find yourself a new man, you are already on a dating site anyway...
I agree Yubba, I usually try to ignore the reason behind and answer to what I believe the question should be... When we put on a side the extremes and the sickening trends forced on us, our opinions can be understood pretty easily I believe...
RE: Abusive males
Obsession you say...No, Dee, don't play the victim to the audience...
You got some of your own medicine...