Some people get offended quite too easily, it's often a lack of sense of humour even if they demand they have it in abundance... May be it's just down to what one finds funny...And because we are a colourful bunch on here we need to be more flexible and find a way to laugh it out....
I don't think it's about getting it right, but what we want to make out of it... Sometimes we just want to have a laugh when opportunity arises and usually it's at someone's else expense...
I can't see anything wrong with having a smile on your face and never say anything bad about others. People have their grumpy moments and moments of sadness and that doesn't change their generally positive outlook on life. I do avoid people who always complain or have a stiff face that will crack any moment... When you smile,the world smiles back at you...and yes, there is always a silver lining, it's up to you if you want to see it...
People can behave in a certain way because they have been pushed into it by external events, traumas and so on... It doesn't mean it's their true personality...
What If they find someone they don't want or feel like cheating on...?! I know I answer you with a question, but you see, another way of looking at it is very possible...
RE: relationships
Blame, blame,blame...done