FlowerOfTheSnow Forum Posts (2,212)

RE: dressing

<<<<<<<<<<<< Guilty!

RE: single life...

12 years, 4 years, 8 years

RE: split the cheque ----

Ahhhhh I get you! Well in that case I would have split the bill five ways and made everyone pay their own bill! Which means mum would have had to foot the bill for her son and g/f and you and your mate the rest. I bet she would never have done that again after that!

RE: split the cheque ----

What were you thinking taking one of your buddies along for a date with a lady? There was only one more of "them" than of you (and your buddy). The question is did your buddy help you pay the bill?

Need I say more?

RE: a potential date

It depends what you are looking for. If you are looking for short term, going out, "having a bit of fun" may be there is no need to say anything. If you are looking for a long term relationship, then in my opinion being up front with it would mean not wasting your time getting to know someone who might run the second you mention your children.

My daughter has 2 children and although she wasn't looking there was a guy who really liked her at work. She turned him down again and again because she was worried about getting involved with someone who might not like her children. Nothing she said would make him give up (in a nice way). She eventually accepted to go out with him for a drink and they have never looked back They have now been living together for months and the kids and him get on really well.

Basically for long term a good man for you would need to also be a good man for your children

RE: You are invited There is a Garden-Party On

Hey! ta for the invite!
Where is everyone? It hasn't started raining yet!!!!

RE: Merry Christmas!!

Bloody hell you guys must be bored! reviving x mas threads!

RE: should people be given a second chance after a REALLY big mistake

I guess some of us with several relationships past must have a few broken elastic bands in our pockets and a really strong clay pot we carry around with us...

RE: should people be given a second chance after a REALLY big mistake

May be it's a bit like an elastic band joining the 2 people together and either their are loads of little tugs, or one major one and once it has snapped when you tie a knot to fix it, well it just never feels the same again, the fragility of it remains apparent...

RE: To all the men, is it true?

May be I don't quite understand all the subtleties of the situation Anctus but any bloke who is after a "trophy" wife (They don't have to do much, just be pretty) gets no sympathy from me.... And any woman who is happy with "just being a trophy wife" gets no sympathy from me either (she's gonna need loads of sympathy later, when empty looks have faded and can no longer secure her a life of luxury - I know of a lady in precisely that situation right now - one of my friends met her through a dating site )

This is not the kind of world I move around in, not that I don't know people who do, or have had the opportunity.... I chose not to be "bought" by money more than once... My life has been harder as a consequence but the satisfaction of knowing I don't "owe" anyone anything and being my own person is worth all the yatchs, diamonds, and palaces...

I know! I just don't understand

RE: To all the men, is it true?

You haven't missed much KT.

Anctus is also saying that a man shouldn't marry a beautiful woman because they are fickle and if another man comes along with more money they'll be off... Some women might do that... but then so would some men!

A lot of very superficial nonesense!

Attraction is never just about how beautiful they "look" and or how well off they are Surely!

Well ... if that is all there is to "a successful relationship... Wow! that's where I been getting it wrong all this time! When I left both of my husbands, I so got it wrong! I left them for a better quality of life (emotionally) MINUS a rich gorgeous new boyfriend for me! Drat! I wish I'd known! I certainly would be considerably richer today!

RE: Moving around the World

Nothing written in stone yet! Very possible, may be, you never know!

RE: promises

Hey nice to have you back KT!

RE: Whats your most embarrassing moment infront of a romantic interest?

Marti! You are too funny!

RE: WHERE WILL YOU BE THIS SUMMER?

Packing everything in my house and downsizing for a huge, mega, historic, life changing move... The holiday comes after!

RE: Moving around the World

feel and cruise away babe!

RE: Moving around the World

I'm moving! Out of UK
Final destination not yet decided, but a couple of stops and stays at "secret locations" in immediate future already worked out...

RE: promises

I would! a bit of mud never hurt anyone!

RE: promises

How wonderful! All of it the reason why you kept the promise and the whole ensuing beautiful evening!

RE: Football....Its A Mans Game or is it?? Who do you support?

Yeah! I like to show them how it's done!
They all convinced I must be related to Raul!

RE: Shop Till You Drop Ladies..........lol....

Hate shopping for hours. Couple of hours of bargain hunting and that's me done for 6 months! The less I pay the better!

RE: Football....Its A Mans Game or is it?? Who do you support?

Don't watch football much.... but..... I play five aside at work every friday (with the guys!!!!!!!!)

RE: Has the role of Mother/Grandmother changed in the New Age

And yet again the lady sounds like she knows what she is talking about!

RE: life are u happy with your life

I used to be where you are.
Changing one's lifestyle is really scary at first but I have never felt better. I'm in last phase of making the changes to my life so that I can live like "who I am". It means letting go of certain "established" securities. Very very scary but then it changed to very very exciting and freedom! It's like someone has nocked off 10 years off my age and how I feel about myself! It's a wonderful feeling

It's not too late to do at least some of the things you "failed to do" ...

And the things you did do... they serve to further make you appreciate what you do want for yourself!

RE: life are u happy with your life

Close!

RE: life are u happy with your life

Going via little village near Almeria. Will land on top of the hill where my parents house is. You still on?

RE: life are u happy with your life

Will do! Watch this space!

RE: life are u happy with your life

No way H/F my friend! a jet plane for 3 or 5 depending where we're going to or from!

RE: life are u happy with your life

My life is very much blessed.
What would make my life happier?
A jet plane! (not to own... to use...) failing that the ability to materialise in a different location as and when...

RE: Have you ever felt lonely ... ?