Maybe I was having a stupid moment or just another one of my weird thinking moments...but here it goes....
I started to think about people you meet... some for a short time, and others for a life time. Not sure, but I wondered if sometimes, people I had in my life had more of an affect on my life than some I knew for a life time.
Do any of you feel/think for yourselves, that this has happened to you?
Shhhhh don't tell brew, he does great computer graphics too. Don't forget to keep it a secret..... if he finds out we said that, he might let it go to his head.... can't have that happening.
About a year.... but not full time. Forgot I had a profile on here until a message was left in my mail box.
I had been on another site, and that group did get together. They usually meet and have a dance night. Some people have come and joined us when they are in town. Most of us are on Facebook now. I left because of inner fights between different Queen B's. and some guys were just as bad.
Sometimes it felt like there were a bunch of teenagers taking over the forums instead of adults. For the most part it was good.
I have met a couple of guys on the site, but nothing came of it. Knew as soon as the coffee was served, it was not a match.
During the first meet, I was terrified, but the group I met, are great, and continue to give support. Don't have to say much but they have figured out some of the negative things from my marriage. If I had not gone on this site, I would not have a great support system, and made some great friends.
Everyone had questions regarding age differences, sleep overs, kids, dealing with disabilities whether it was a child's or their own.
Even questions about a person's behavior causing a partner's concerns. Even what was the protocol on a first date. How to allow yourself to date, if your child might not be OK with it. The guys and gals were very honest in the answers. Some older males gave great honest advise or answers.
Have people met on these sites, yes. Some learned enough to gain confidence, and that helped them meet a person elsewhere.
You never know what great life lesson you might learn, even if that lesson is to show you that people are not always what they seem, good or bad. Some are just as self conscious too.
Guess I am just saying in a very very long wordy way, don't loose hope. Usually things are are good, take time, and are worth the wait. :-)
I hate it when people forward bogus warnings, and I have even done it myself a couple times unintentionally...but this one is real, and it's important. So please send this warning to everyone on your e-mail list.
If someone comes to your front door saying they are checking for ticks due to the warm weather and asks you to take your clothes off and dance around with your arms up, DO NOT DO IT!! THIS IS A SCAM!! They only want to see you naked.
I wish I'd gotten this yesterday. I feel so stupid!
There I was on my way to Wal-Mart... getting into a fight was the farthest thing from my mind ... wasn't even on the horizon ... I was in a great mood ... and then ... I rear-ended a car.
So there we are alongside the road and slowly the driver gets out of the car ... and you know how you just-get-sooo-stressed and life-stuff seems to get funny?
Yeah, well, I could NOT believe it .. he was a DWARF!
He storms over to my car, looks up at me and says,
'I AM NOT HAPPY!'
So, I look down at him and said, 'Well, which one are you then?'
............. and that's when the fight started . . .
White wine, fettuchini with garlic sounds delish.... shrimp is deadly.
Got my oldest son to learn to cook by convincing him that females like it when a man cooks .... Do any of the other females on the forum agree?
Does not mean women do not cook for the men, just is it nice a man cooks also?
So Brew.... my mother hates it when someone is in the kitchen when she is cooking........ are you the type of cook who allows others to help or talk with you while you cook and make it a social event?
I'm a traitor to the cause. My parents are from Ireland, I just happened to be born in the UK. At that time, young adults went off to England, got jobs and sent money home until they got married.
Usually I tell people, I argue with myself...all the time.. Irish side against the English side.
P.S. My comment is not to make fun of people that have trouble with weight ... just a person that called other people "Fat Pigs", or commented on a person's size with out taking a good look at them self.
Soooo if the person was .... 300 lbs (or looked that large).... with rolls hanging out over the pants and from beneath the mini top.... (some showing off stretch marks galore...) and well.... hairy.....
RE: am i cute to you
No offense intended but, I do not see anyone getting bashed ... even when I put my glasses on I can't see it.Question to Langleygirl.... if the guy plays the drums does that mean he's got rhythm ????