1. Where he lives right now (he might be way, way, way too far for me).
2. Is he outgoing and fun? (does he like to take me out dancing, watch a live band, and etc.).
3. His age.
4. Really how much he has to say in his profile. If he doesn't say a lot, but 1 or 2 sentences, normally I won't be interested. If you don't say much about yourself, I most likely will not want to go out with you.
1. Being involved with a genuine nice, outgoing, fun guy (the last one was last year).
2. I miss Texas very much (my home).
3. I miss Phoenix very much (I was a dancer there and cocktail waitress; great money I miss there).
4. My mother (I haven't seen her in 2 years; hopefully later this month I'll be going to Texas to see her).
5. Having a dog ( I grew up having dogs in my life until I left home 13 years ago. I haven't had one since.)
6. In a way, I miss my ex-husband (he was a great guy, loved to travel and such, but his job got in the way of our relationship a lot and he didn't want to do anything with me. So, I had to leave).
I never did like Mondays. I had a couple of dates that were on a Monday, because that was the only time they were available. Going out on a Monday is very boring, unless you like to play a lot of pool or darts. But I don't like it.
I think capital punishment should be for the murderers who dismember, mutilate, and cannabilize their victims. Jeffrey Dahmer should have gotten it, but another inmate did the deed instead. Ed Gein should have gotten it, but they sentenced him to a mental hospital for the criminally insane. The system sucks sometimes!!
I was taken for a while, but I'm single again. That's okay by me. I'll be moving anyway, in March of 2008 and I will find the man I really want: A Texas man!! My first boyfriends was back home in Texas and miss that great hospitality, gentleness, and "real men" there. So, I'm not worried.
1. He picks me up and already decides that he doesn't want to take me out.
2. He's older than what he said on his profile.
3. He decides to change the plans in the last minute.
4. That he's over an 1 hour late (that happened 1 time before).
5. The car breaks down when picking me up.
6. He trips and falls when we enter a restuarant (or wherever), because he didn't want to pay attention to the step and keep staring at me instead.
7. Tells me, in the middle of the date, that he can't stay out too, too long, because he has other things to do.
8. He calls me and asks me out and then when he does pick me up, he asks, "why do you trust me already?". SHEEEEESHHH!! This one really bugs me!!! This happened to me last Tuesday.
I like Steve Irwin. But I know this will sound lame, but when I was a child I heard about Olympic swimming champ Dawn Fraser, from Australia. I liked her.
The very worst date I've had was last Tuesday and he was a paranoid schizophrenic or something. He wanted to see my ID, he ask, "why do you trust me?" when he was the one that called me in the first place, and just being nuts. I didn't even let him take me home. I was really scared of him. He lives in Mayer, but might be moving again. He always moved he told me....okay...What a nightmare that night was!!!
I remember playing hopscotch with my friends, that lived across the street from me there in Beaumont, Texas (outside of Houston). We'd play hopscotch, double-dutch jump rope, race down the sidewalk to see who was the fastest runner, and go to the park (about 1 block from where I lived) and go to the pool there. It was so much fun being a kid. I sure miss it.
I mean if you're friend asked you, "what do you want to do?" you knew and you just done it. Now as a grown up and meet up with new people it's not as easy. It's either a damn bar, museum, to eat at a restuarant, or whatever. It's not as fun anymore.
I sometimes think so, but most of the time I could care less. I've been on dating websites for about 2 1/2 years now and met about 30 people on them, but only 4 came close to being my type and that liked me a lot. The others were boring, dull, and just no fun to be with. So, that's all I've been getting in the past 3 months now and I could care less. I'm just here to have fun, because I'm fixing to move in 6 months and pretty much just looking for someone to play pool with, go dancing, and go to karaoke. I'm tired of Arizona men.
My dream is to move back to Texas, get back into college (little vocational college), get a nice apartment with swimming pool and gym around the Waco area, and just be happy again.
Love is when you really care about someone and never want to let them go. You care about their well-being, their feelings, and just who they are (no matter what they look like, act like, or anything).
If I was still living in a big city, I most likely won't have to go to a bar to have fun. But I live in an awful, redneck, "biker", town that has nothing but bars to go to for fun on weekends. We have 1 mall, but you can walk through it in less than 20 minutes! And we have bookstores (which I love!), but I go to them too much already. But when I move (which will be around March or April of 2008), I'll make sure to live near the Houston or Dallas area. I'm from the Houston area and miss all those museums, theaters, aquarium, and many more things there, that you'll never be bored. So, I'm happy about that.
I'm going to be flat out honest here, but I do like the bar scene every other weekend. Well, for one thing I can wear anything I want, there's no kids around, and I can talk about any darn thing without offending someone. I also live in a small town and that's all that there is to do after 8-9 pm. Most other places have already closed up for the day. I used to work in the bar industry and I really did enjoy it. Not only was in work (yes, it is: lots of cleaning, serving people every second of the day, and keeping an eye on certain people), but it's a lot of fun too (great tips, play any kind of music I like, and make friends/acquaintances).
So, what is sooooo wrong with going out to a bar??
But I do believe a lot of them don't even read the profiles of someone, before writing a message to them. My last 2 dates didn't and wanted me to explain every little detail and stuff. Before I ever respond I read their profile first and then go from there.
RE: When a GIRL looks at a GUY'S profile...
I look for:1. Where he lives right now (he might be way, way, way too far for me).
2. Is he outgoing and fun? (does he like to take me out dancing, watch a live band, and etc.).
3. His age.
4. Really how much he has to say in his profile. If he doesn't say a lot, but 1 or 2 sentences, normally I won't be interested. If you don't say much about yourself, I most likely will not want to go out with you.