Personally, I haven't been on here long enough, but do notice the turnover of the threads can be annoyingly slow, at times. I think the people are still about....maybe just not so willing to partake? I dunno.
First impressions do count to me. Being nicely presented is important IMO, especially if you're going on a date.
.....but, yes....if they are lacking inner attractiveness, it doesn't matter if they look like Brad Pitt, I'm outta there. ....and the same could be said about myself. They may find something about me(inner or outer) that is unappealing to them...ya win some, ya lose them.
I don't find you unattractive visually, but as CC mentioned earlier....it is more about what YOU think of YOURSELF, and not what others think about YOU. The inner qualities of attraction are just as, if not more important than the outward visuals.
I just don't find men or women who feel they need to have to ask the question, appealing.
....but that is just my view. I'm sure there will be others who have their own opinions on the matter too.
In regards to ED, I'm well aware of other ways....but, as you say, there needs to be two willing participants for that scenario.
Sadly, some men with ED, lose all desire for any form of physical intimacy...for the mere fact they'll feel it will lead to a sense of disappointment in their partner in that they are unable to penetrate(his perception)....so don't venture down that path at all.
I used to have a morbid fascination with cemeteries. I would browse through them, reading the headstones. I grew out of it thankfully after watching Pet Sematary.
I have never encountered a spirt, but many a deja vu without reasonable, rational explanation.
I like to believe there is a spiritual world beyond here, but being a realist I've not witnessed real evidence of it....in my experience....yet.
Hey, Harry....I was all dandy when men offered to pay for the full cost of the meal.
...but if things didn't go elsewhere after the date, I'd often hear back through the grapevine....that I'd sponged a freebee....so, it's dutch for me, unless he absolutely insists to the point where he'd be offended if I didn't go with it.
I don't like the feeling of sitting through a meal that he is paying, thinking....now where are we heading after this....when all I want to do is go home....alone....because of lack of chemistry.
RE: Word to Live By - Part 3
@ Trigs...."A meaningful life is........."You got it girl!