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Mar 26, 2015

RE: 3:14 AM

Thank you for your kind thoughts Cc.....I'll see if I can get a pic of us together this weekend(depending on how she is) and upload here. I get a lot of people asking after her and she knows I have made friends on this site. I'm sure she wouldn't mind having her pic on here for a couple of days.

Mar 26, 2015

RE: 3:14 AM

Hi Cc

Not wonderful. She's in a home for the disabled at the mo, undertaking intensive physiotherapy. Very difficult for her and extremely painful.
Trying to stay positive.

Thank you for asking.

Mar 26, 2015

RE: which do you perfare....drunk or stoned..?

Yep, I carry my water bottle around with me at all times. I swear by it. I carry bottle in a thermal zip up, so, I guess people wonder what I'm knocking back when I'm driving....

and cheers to you too.

Mar 26, 2015

RE: 3:14 AM

It's only 6:57pm Thursday evening here, but I did an almost all-nighter on here the other night due to not being able to sleep. Worry.

I find a relaxing bath helps or reading.

Mar 26, 2015

RE: What is the ideal way to date long distance

Yes, I thought that too....

Mar 26, 2015

RE: What is the ideal way to date long distance

There is no ideal situation.

He'd have to move here, only after visiting and meeting(spending time together) and plenty of skype sessions.

For me personally, I'm unable to re-locate due to family commitments here.

It's too much to ask of anyone. I'm happy to be here for the forums only.

For others, if you're both committed to being together it's not totally out of the question, but requires a lot of trust and patience.

Mar 26, 2015

RE: Hugs from Behind

Yep, I agree.

I love being cuddled from behind, but only from someone I have strong feelings for, because sometimes it can lead onto other er things.

Mar 26, 2015

RE: which do you perfare....drunk or stoned..?

Hi B

It was easier when we were younger....these days, if I have too much to drink, it takes me at least 24 hours to fully recover.

Drinking alone is not much fun. True.

Mar 25, 2015

RE: which do you perfare....drunk or stoned..?

I prefer neither.

I don't do drugs but if I'm with a friend and my son is at his Dad's I'll be sociable and have a couple of drinks....but rolling drunk...nah.

Mar 24, 2015

RE: Match

He doesn't exist.

Well, he did, years ago.

Long gone now, as in 6ft under.

Mar 24, 2015

RE: Love found me here

You've found newly acquired love and you're still on this site day after day?

I don't get it.

I'd be long gone....focusing my attention on the new relationship.

Mar 23, 2015

RE: The Unknown Factor

The lady you insulted happens to have a heart of gold....one of the loveliest people on here.

Fake profilers seem to be running amok on this site at the moment, and I doubt your authenticity. You had me almost fooled.

If you are who you say you are, and before you go making random vicious personal attacks about them on the forums, take the time to get to know them first. You may be pleasantly surprised.

Mar 23, 2015

RE: First Date

You should really just have a meet, before you have an actual date.

...just to see if you like each other first.

Ask him, if he would mind having a quick coffee meet first during the day and just see how things go with that.

You could have a take-out coffee and go for a walk in a park or beach....I find crowded cafes aren't always the best places to meet.

Up to you Xian.

Mar 23, 2015

RE: First Date

As KN mentioned don't go if he makes you feel uncomfortable, but if it's just you feeling nervous.....then I think you should meet.

Just go with the flow. Meet in a public place.....a cafe....just a coffee. You don't want to be stuck there too long over a meal if you don't "click"....he'll probably be as nervous as you anyway. Just keep that in mind too.....you may even both laugh about it....to break the ice.

Have fun....

Mar 23, 2015

RE: First Date

Hiya Cocheta....yeah, I still get a little nervous and shy if I go on a date. Let him see it. Don't try to be someone that you're not Xian.

You'll gradually feel more at ease when you don't pretend.

Mar 23, 2015

RE: First Date

Just be yourself Xian.....

Mar 21, 2015

RE: Money Oh Money !!!

Oh, stop it you guys....

Mar 21, 2015

RE: Men and Women see things differently

I'm just teasing ya Obs....

Mar 21, 2015

RE: Men and Women see things differently

Yep....Obs....the mutt from Dastardly and Muttley....sni**ers.

Mar 21, 2015

RE: Men and Women see things differently

Yeah....I have noticed that.

Sometimes, if we're not careful, we can get caught in the crossfire too...

Mar 21, 2015

RE: Men and Women see things differently

Nah...not all the time Peachy.

Obs just like to rev us up when he's bored.

He gets high on it....

Mar 21, 2015

RE: Money Oh Money !!!

Mar 21, 2015

RE: SA Delicacies

Mar 21, 2015

RE: Men and Women see things differently

I can't tell whether you're being dead set or humorous, but it makes me laugh all the same.....such a poker face....

Mar 21, 2015

RE: WHERE DO YOU PREFER TO LIVE

Yanno....that little "patting head" emote really gets up my nose...it's so damn patronising and condescending....it's a "there, there...never mind" emote.

Bananas? Yep....

Mar 21, 2015

RE: Men and Women see things differently

I'd love to....haven't been out for ages.

Enjoy your night.....

Mar 21, 2015

RE: Men and Women see things differently

Yep....got that Mol previously.

I think you need to get out and party....as do I....

Mar 21, 2015

RE: Men and Women see things differently

Yes. Your view....

Mar 21, 2015

RE: Men and Women see things differently

Oh, I see.

That's your view then.

There happens to be lots of crazies in all vocations of life.

...so a few slipped through the net in your experiences....

Mar 21, 2015

RE: Men and Women see things differently

Learned empathy through one's own life experiences....

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