I simply wouldn't have the interest or desire to be on an online dating site forum if I was in a relationship.
I'd be looking for a reason to be outta here
If my real-life partner(NB real-life....not a cyber LDR) chose to flirt with other women on a forum here and spend much of his time on the site, I'd be thinking there's something seriously wrong with the relationship.
I am not referring to dating either....I am referring to a real-life committed relationship.
I'd struggle to find the time for starters. I'd keep in contact by email with friends I've made, but that would be it. My attention would be elsewhere.
I don't agree with your statement personally. As I pointed out in my previous post, the best lovers are ones you have a strong emotional connection with and are good communicators. They could come from anywhere in the world.
I had one not so terrific experience with one American man.
I'm sure that doesn't account for all other American men.
It seems you have just had bad experiences with the American and Canadian men you have been with.
I don't snog my friends, male or female. They are my mates.
Having said that, if I meet someone new, and there is potential for it to go somewhere after we have developed a friendship and compatibility is evident, then.....of course.
...but then the best lovers are usually the ones who have a strong emotional connection with good communication, irrespective of nationality, I've found.
Yeah, got locked in the boot of my folks car. My brothers and I were playing chicken and brave with how long we could stay in there. The boys had their turn and then when it came to mine.....they left me there with boot locked. Dad rescued me, thankfully, when he was going off to the milking shed....he heard my screams. It was a good 10 minutes later though and it was blardy hot in there....
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)...I was 9 months pregnant with my first....watching the Titanic. 
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RE: Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
I simply wouldn't have the interest or desire to be on an online dating site forum if I was in a relationship.I'd be looking for a reason to be outta here
If my real-life partner(NB real-life....not a cyber LDR) chose to flirt with other women on a forum here and spend much of his time on the site, I'd be thinking there's something seriously wrong with the relationship.
I am not referring to dating either....I am referring to a real-life committed relationship.
I'd struggle to find the time for starters. I'd keep in contact by email with friends I've made, but that would be it. My attention would be elsewhere.