Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry? ( Archived) (124)

Feb 15, 2015 6:20 AM CSTShould a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?

Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?(Vote Below)

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No, they should be concentrating on their r'ship
36
62%
No, they're giving people false hope
2
3%
The flirtees are wasting their time also
1
2%
Yes why not, who cares
3
5%
Yes they can do what they like
3
5%
No, they're getting in the way of other's chances
6
10%
Not my problem
4
7%
The occasional harmless flirting is ok
3
5%
Total Votes
58
Agree or disagree or abstain?
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.
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Feb 15, 2015 7:18 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
minnieme2: Agree or disagree or abstain?
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.


You obviously know someone who is and if you think he should not then stop flirting with him and let him get on with his own life...
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Feb 15, 2015 7:22 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
minnieme2: Agree or disagree or abstain?
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.


I'd hope that I'd be too busy romancing to be on a dating site laugh
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Feb 15, 2015 7:30 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
minnieme2: Agree or disagree or abstain?
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.


When I was with my friend, most of the time she was with me and giving me ideas about what to post on blogs or the forums
she had a good laughter with everything I posted then.
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Feb 15, 2015 7:33 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Is it just harmless fun? If so, why not?

How often do they see each other? If it's long distance, should they be sitting at home on their own with the TV or a book or have some fun interacting with other people?

As long as it's agreed between 2 people, they don't make each other jealous and it's FORUMS ONLY (I do know how much hook-ups are going on at least locally) I wouldn't have a problem with it - and more importantly, if it's other people, it's no ones business but between those 2. conversing

I would hope to be too busy, but you most likely don't see someone every day and that's just me, I don't watch telly, so that's my entertainment instead (or a book)
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Feb 15, 2015 7:40 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
"Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?"
Yes, it should be compulsory.
minnieme2: Agree or disagree or abstain?
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.

Why do you think it's suspect, particularly if you think it's harmless flirting?

What do you think it says for the relationship?
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Feb 15, 2015 8:29 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
yubba: You obviously know someone who is and if you think he should not then stop flirting with him and let him get on with his own life...


I'm an outsider on this, just something I saw with others
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Feb 15, 2015 8:31 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
unlaoised: I'd hope that I'd be too busy romancing to be on a dating site


yeah, me too! grin
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Feb 15, 2015 8:33 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
Stedan
StedanStedanLiverpool, Merseyside, England UK2 Threads 1,780 Posts
unlaoised: I'd hope that I'd be too busy romancing to be on a dating site


Agree....thumbs up ...wow Thats a first...lol

Would say all my farewells in one message....then spend all what precious time I have with the one lady in my life......the coffin dodgers might be after me next week....rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 15, 2015 8:34 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Stedan: Agree.... ... Thats a first...lol

Would say all my farewells in one message....then spend all what precious time I have with the one lady in my life......the coffin dodgers might be after me next week....


Woohoo!! We agree! applause

laugh wave
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Feb 15, 2015 8:43 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
jac_the_gripper: "Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?"
Yes, it should be compulsory.

Why do you think it's suspect, particularly if you think it's harmless flirting?

What do you think it says for the relationship?


why suspect? they should be naturally too busy elsewhere and not feel the need to be on a site so much! ;)

Very little! grin
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Feb 15, 2015 8:46 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
minnieme2: why suspect? they should be naturally too busy elsewhere and not feel the need to be on a site so much! ;)

Very little!


you have no idea of how many couples are on this
site together just for the thrill and fun
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Feb 15, 2015 8:48 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
this is my social media site I have no facebook nor tweeter
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Feb 15, 2015 8:56 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
minnieme2: why suspect? they should be naturally too busy elsewhere and not feel the need to be on a site so much! ;)

Very little!

Why do you think that? confused
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Feb 15, 2015 8:57 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
bungallow55: you have no idea of how many couples are on this
site together just for the thrill and fun


I can think of better ways for a couple to get their thrills laugh
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Feb 15, 2015 8:58 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
besides, I won't pay Matchlaugh when this one is freebeer
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Feb 15, 2015 9:00 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
unlaoised: I can think of better ways for a couple to get their thrills


yes, I mean when time to take a breakgrin
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Feb 15, 2015 9:01 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
bungallow55: yes, I mean when time to take a break


A break from the relationship or from CS?
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Feb 15, 2015 9:05 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
bungallow55: you have no idea of how many couples are on this
site together just for the thrill and fun


that's great for them if they're enjoying it together.
I meant someone who spends most of their time on the site flirting with everyone else. Anyway off with them! As long as they stay out of my way, I don't care! rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 15, 2015 9:10 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
unlaoised: A break from the relationship or from CS?


a break from bed and thrill thingsgrin
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Feb 15, 2015 9:12 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
that's great for them if they're enjoying it together.
I meant someone who spends most of their time on the site flirting with everyone else. Anyway off with them! As long as they stay out of my way, I don't care![/quote

well you can block them all
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Feb 15, 2015 9:19 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Is there proof that people in relationships are flirting on the siteor is it just an aassumption?
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Feb 15, 2015 9:26 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Bungallow..

Nah.. Probably too embarrassed to show their faces. Lol
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Feb 15, 2015 9:29 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
bungallow55
bungallow55bungallow55Lakeland, Florida USA238 Threads 10 Polls 3,837 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Bungallow..

Nah.. Probably too embarrassed to show their faces. Lol


or too busy in bed
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Feb 15, 2015 10:34 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
minnieme2: Agree or disagree or abstain?
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.


I like the way you phrase your thread.handshake
Of course you don't seem to have issues with those in relationships but are on the site for other reasons, like:
- able to chit chat with others for the fun of it.
- able to do so because CS thinks it is ok, therefore they allow it.
- CS is a great site to spend some time, sharing ideas and learning new stuff.
- Meet and chat with peeps who are continents away.
- Have fun with scammers and trolls.laugh
- may be a way to seek advice on personal issues.
- Free to all who wishes to participate, despite those who wants to tell others what they can or cannot do. Drop it!
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Feb 15, 2015 10:51 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
estrella123
estrella123estrella123Fuengirola, Andalusia Spain72 Posts
minnieme2: Agree or disagree or abstain?
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.




They really are "IN RELATIONSHIP"..


confused
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Feb 15, 2015 10:55 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
If two people meet on a dating site and they want to respond to threads and each others comments in those threads I don't have a problem with that. You don't stop communicating with the world just because you have a love life.

However, I have a big problem with my partner flirting with someone else. It's happened to me and it was another red flag.boxing
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Feb 15, 2015 11:09 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
No, I don't think they should be.

If I was in a committed relationship, I'd be focusing my attentions and energies on the relationship.
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Feb 15, 2015 11:14 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
BerrySmoothie: No, I don't think they should be.

If I was in a committed relationship, I'd be focusing my attentions and energies on the relationship.


Totally agree with this. thumbs up wave
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Feb 15, 2015 11:21 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
Draegoneer
DraegoneerDraegoneerPrudenville, Michigan USA1 Threads 1,371 Posts
minnieme2: Agree or disagree or abstain?
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.




If a person is in a relationship; why bother much with social media much at all?

Actions speak louder than words. It must not be that much of a relationship after all.

In a relationship, the last thing I would want to do to someone, is cast doubt on the sincerity of the chosen status quo. One of the first things I wouldn't do, is waste any more time with some one that is.
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Feb 15, 2015 11:31 AM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Not my circus not my monkey.Something like that.grin
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