Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry? (124)
minnieme2: Agree or disagree or abstain?
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.
Personally i wouldn't like it, if i was the other, you should be concentrating on the *other*, of course the odd comment is fine, its where you draw the line, while most flirting on here is pretty harmless
....if its constant from within a relationship, i think perhaps something is astray, i guess there is trust But blind trust you have to look out for
MADDOG69: No. They're all tramps.
Yea, I find that with the men too..the great unwashed
unlaoised: Yea, I find that with the men too..the great unwashed
Pffft, i wash all the time, everytime it rains
unlaoised: Yea, I find that with the men too..the great unwashed
Chancers the lot of them, I'd say.
KNenagh: Is it just harmless fun? If so, why not?
How often do they see each other? If it's long distance, should they be sitting at home on their own with the TV or a book or have some fun interacting with other people?
As long as it's agreed between 2 people, they don't make each other jealous and it's FORUMS ONLY (I do know how much hook-ups are going on at least locally) I wouldn't have a problem with it - and more importantly, if it's other people, it's no ones business but between those 2.
I would hope to be too busy, but you most likely don't see someone every day and that's just me, I don't watch telly, so that's my entertainment instead (or a book)
How often do they see each other? If it's long distance, should they be sitting at home on their own with the TV or a book or have some fun interacting with other people?
As long as it's agreed between 2 people, they don't make each other jealous and it's FORUMS ONLY (I do know how much hook-ups are going on at least locally) I wouldn't have a problem with it - and more importantly, if it's other people, it's no ones business but between those 2.
I would hope to be too busy, but you most likely don't see someone every day and that's just me, I don't watch telly, so that's my entertainment instead (or a book)
skippyguy: Pffft, i wash all the time, everytime it rains
Not you, Skip
The tramps in the pub!
MADDOG69: Chancers the lot of them, I'd say.
Ah now, not the lot of them....there are one or two absolute gentlemen as well
Phew 
its hard to tell them apart here....
its hard to tell them apart here....Stedan: Agree.... ... Thats a first...lol
Would say all my farewells in one message....then spend all what precious time I have with the one lady in my life......the coffin dodgers might be after me next week....
Would say all my farewells in one message....then spend all what precious time I have with the one lady in my life......the coffin dodgers might be after me next week....
Stedan: Agree.... ... Thats a first...lol
Would say all my farewells in one message....then spend all what precious time I have with the one lady in my life......the coffin dodgers might be after me next week....
But what if you live a distance from your love, and during your time here, you made some wonderful friends and enjoyed the banter and fun times? Should one put aside the banter, friends, and few minutes of laughs and joy, because of being in a relationship? Would say all my farewells in one message....then spend all what precious time I have with the one lady in my life......the coffin dodgers might be after me next week....
There are partnerships that were made here on CS and I quite enjoy it when one or both parties pop in here and still interact with us. If there is trust in their relationship and they are both aware of their forum banter, why not.
skippyguy: Phew its hard to tell them apart here....
True!
Kaybee50: But what if you live a distance from your love, and during your time here, you made some wonderful friends and enjoyed the banter and fun times? Should one put aside the banter, friends, and few minutes of laughs and joy, because of being in a relationship?
There are partnerships that were made here on CS and I quite enjoy it when one or both parties pop in here and still interact with us. If there is trust in their relationship and they are both aware of their forum banter, why not.
There are partnerships that were made here on CS and I quite enjoy it when one or both parties pop in here and still interact with us. If there is trust in their relationship and they are both aware of their forum banter, why not.
i wouldn't farewell, but obviously you would not frequent as much, banter is fine, as long as you keep it real ....
Sorry had to answer...lol
Kaybee50: But what if you live a distance from your love, and during your time here, you made some wonderful friends and enjoyed the banter and fun times? Should one put aside the banter, friends, and few minutes of laughs and joy, because of being in a relationship?
There are partnerships that were made here on CS and I quite enjoy it when one or both parties pop in here and still interact with us. If there is trust in their relationship and they are both aware of their forum banter, why not.
There are partnerships that were made here on CS and I quite enjoy it when one or both parties pop in here and still interact with us. If there is trust in their relationship and they are both aware of their forum banter, why not.
Don't tell people I've been trying to flirt with your cat, KB.
My reputation will be ruined.
jac_the_gripper: Don't tell people I've been trying to flirt with your cat, KB.
My reputation will be ruined.
My reputation will be ruined.
Reputation ??
2girlsnocup: What people do in their free time is of no concern to anyone, especially if it doesn't effect them personally. If someone is wanting to control someone to the degree that they can't accept them posting Online, that's more of a red flag than anything else.
I'm happily in a relationship, I post on CS and other forums, and haven't felt the need to flirt with anyone. My partner knows I post and where, and doesn't really care. She's just as content as she posts on her forums.
Just because we're in a relationship, it doesn't mean we have to devote every waking moment to each other. There's something called 'me time'.
I'm happily in a relationship, I post on CS and other forums, and haven't felt the need to flirt with anyone. My partner knows I post and where, and doesn't really care. She's just as content as she posts on her forums.
Just because we're in a relationship, it doesn't mean we have to devote every waking moment to each other. There's something called 'me time'.
And I'd rather interact with people on an international level, learning things and laughing along the way, rather than spending me alone time like a zombie staring at a t.v. screen.
jac_the_gripper: Don't tell people I've been trying to flirt with your cat, KB.
My reputation will be ruined.
My reputation will be ruined.
You need to be ruined gripper
Kaybee50: But what if you live a distance from your love, and during your time here, you made some wonderful friends and enjoyed the banter and fun times? Should one put aside the banter, friends, and few minutes of laughs and joy, because of being in a relationship?
There are partnerships that were made here on CS and I quite enjoy it when one or both parties pop in here and still interact with us. If there is trust in their relationship and they are both aware of their forum banter, why not.
There are partnerships that were made here on CS and I quite enjoy it when one or both parties pop in here and still interact with us. If there is trust in their relationship and they are both aware of their forum banter, why not.
In all fairness, why should anyone have to justify what they do, to anyone else? Unless it concerns them personally, it's none of their concern.
As you say, people make friendships and enjoy the banter. Why should that suddenly stop because they're in a relationship.
The same principle can be used out in the real world. Would people stop hanging out with their single friends just because they get in a relationship? No. They'd still be friends.
jono7: jac, i just don't think of you as someone who needs help....
so...let's just keep this between us....
so...let's just keep this between us....
Oh, you beast.
uptall: You need to be ruined gripper
No, I should be left to my innocence!
jac_the_gripper: Don't tell people I've been trying to flirt with your cat, KB.
My reputation will be ruined.
My reputation will be ruined.
Announcement to everyone....
Jac has been trying to flirt with my cat.
Kaybee50: Announcement to everyone....
Jac has been trying to flirt with my cat.
Jac has been trying to flirt with my cat.
Has the Cupid police and RSPCA beenin informed...???
2girlsnocup: In all fairness, why should anyone have to justify what they do, to anyone else? Unless it concerns them personally, it's none of their concern.
As you say, people make friendships and enjoy the banter. Why should that suddenly stop because they're in a relationship.
The same principle can be used out in the real world. Would people stop hanging out with their single friends just because they get in a relationship? No. They'd still be friends.
As you say, people make friendships and enjoy the banter. Why should that suddenly stop because they're in a relationship.
The same principle can be used out in the real world. Would people stop hanging out with their single friends just because they get in a relationship? No. They'd still be friends.
2girlsnocup: In all fairness, why should anyone have to justify what they do, to anyone else? Unless it concerns them personally, it's none of their concern.
As you say, people make friendships and enjoy the banter. Why should that suddenly stop because they're in a relationship.
The same principle can be used out in the real world. Would people stop hanging out with their single friends just because they get in a relationship? No. They'd still be friends.
Three thumbs up. As you say, people make friendships and enjoy the banter. Why should that suddenly stop because they're in a relationship.
The same principle can be used out in the real world. Would people stop hanging out with their single friends just because they get in a relationship? No. They'd still be friends.
Stedan: Has the Cupid police and RSPCA beenin informed...???
Stedan. You make me laugh outloud sometimes and this is one of those times. KNenagh: Hiya jono, I get both opinions.
I haven't dated off CS since 2013 and looking at the type of guys (not everyone but the vast majority) I met LOCALLY of CS, I wouldn't want to meet anyone locally from a dating website. I only date in RL these days.
I have chatted to some interesting people internationally who I would love to meet (both genders) for a coffee - I would miss the entertainment and catching up with people on here, but if a guy would want me to stop using the forum and blogs, I would do so.
I can only talk about me - I don't cheat, period. Being on a dating website wouldn't be the slightest bit of temptation for me if I'm with someone.
Of course I would prefer spending time with that person and wouldn't switch on my laptop if himself was around, but I was with workaholics in the past. Would be nice to have someone around a bit more.
I haven't dated off CS since 2013 and looking at the type of guys (not everyone but the vast majority) I met LOCALLY of CS, I wouldn't want to meet anyone locally from a dating website. I only date in RL these days.
I have chatted to some interesting people internationally who I would love to meet (both genders) for a coffee - I would miss the entertainment and catching up with people on here, but if a guy would want me to stop using the forum and blogs, I would do so.
I can only talk about me - I don't cheat, period. Being on a dating website wouldn't be the slightest bit of temptation for me if I'm with someone.
Of course I would prefer spending time with that person and wouldn't switch on my laptop if himself was around, but I was with workaholics in the past. Would be nice to have someone around a bit more.
KN i like what you said about only in the forums as well.
Kaybee50: relating to my earlier comment of "learning new things on the forums". I had to google "obviated".
Well at least you single folk have the time for such things.
BB_snickers: Well at least you single folk have the time for such things.
Ach, the burdens of You non-single entities. Kaybee50: Ach, the burdens of You non-single entities.
Us entities manage quite well.
Now where's that cat?
I think if you're in a relationship you shouldn't have a cat. you should be suffocating your partner instead.
Here is the pic that got Jac all aflutter.
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I want a fluff ball like that myself 
KNenagh: I want a fluff ball like that myself
I don't share my fluff balls. 
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