Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry? (124)

Feb 15, 2015 5:03 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Kaybee50: I don't share my fluff balls.


That's ok, I was thinking along the lines of a Swiss Sennendog pup and a kitten and both of the terrorising the new neighbourhood. grin
Feb 15, 2015 5:04 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
KNenagh: That's ok, I was thinking along the lines of a Swiss Sennendog pup and a kitten and both of the terrorising the new neighbourhood.
Now that sounds like pure entertainment! applause
Feb 15, 2015 5:05 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
VivianLee
VivianLeeVivianLeeLivingston, Lothian, Scotland UK16 Threads 16 Polls 249 Posts
minnieme2: Agree or disagree or abstain?
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.


I'm in a LDR with a guy I met here. Relationships are not about being nose-to-nose 24/7. LDR relationships are way harder, no shared friends, no shared experiences between meetings. When we are apart, this is our only shared social life. CS owes us!

You worry about your love life, let us worry about ours. Good luck and good hunting.
Feb 15, 2015 5:06 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Kaybee50: Now that sounds like pure entertainment!


I would like to have pets again but I travel too much at the moment. sigh

I'll see how things are in 6 month time. conversing

Our dog at home has a loud bark, I mightn't be that popular in the neighbourhood. laugh
Feb 15, 2015 5:08 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
i have some wonderful Memories from Pets, which will never forget, but no
don't mix well with travelling............
Feb 15, 2015 5:13 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
minnieme2: Agree or disagree or abstain?
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.


well conventional wisdom would say no, the person should be concentrating on their relationshipprofessor but then...what do I care? People do all kindsa crazy stuff. I think chatting on CS is the pretty innocent in the big picturedunno
Feb 15, 2015 5:13 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
@ KN Kitten will always have the upper paw.

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Feb 15, 2015 5:13 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
skippyguy: i have some wonderful Memories from Pets, which will never forget, but no
don't mix well with travelling............


We always had lots of animals and pets around when growing up, I just haven't had any since living in Ireland and I'm getting used to having nothing to tie me down. Might start with stuff like that again in a while. conversing
Feb 15, 2015 5:15 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Kaybee50: Here is the pic that got Jac all aflutter.

I am smitten with that kitten. smitten
Feb 15, 2015 5:16 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
KNenagh: We always had lots of animals and pets around when growing up, I just haven't had any since living in Ireland and I'm getting used to having nothing to tie me down. Might start with stuff like that again in a while.

grin wave
Feb 15, 2015 5:17 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
Kaybee50: @ KN Kitten will always have the upper paw.


this seems reasonable to me.
Feb 15, 2015 5:20 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Kaybee50: @ KN Kitten will always have the upper paw.


We have a BIG dog at home, when the cat gave her one of her looks, the dog turned around and walked off. uh oh laugh

When we had several cats (on the farm), the cats hung out together. When there was only one left, she and the dog got friendly.

When we had to put the cat down when she was 21, the dog was looking for her for days. sigh
Feb 15, 2015 5:29 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
KNenagh: We have a BIG dog at home, when the cat gave her one of her looks, the dog turned around and walked off.

When we had several cats (on the farm), the cats hung out together. When there was only one left, she and the dog got friendly.

When we had to put the cat down when she was 21, the dog was looking for her for days.


they probably became great friends right under your nose without you realizing it! comfort
Feb 15, 2015 5:31 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
felixis99: they probably became great friends right under your nose without you realizing it!


They were good friends in the end felixis

But the cat was the boss
Feb 15, 2015 5:39 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
She's sending you a saucy little wink Jac.


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Feb 15, 2015 5:40 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
Kaybee50: She's sending you a saucy little wink Jac.


i'm not sure.....


but i think she's lookin' right at me....


grin
Feb 15, 2015 5:41 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
KNenagh: We have a BIG dog at home, when the cat gave her one of her looks, the dog turned around and walked off.

When we had several cats (on the farm), the cats hung out together. When there was only one left, she and the dog got friendly.

When we had to put the cat down when she was 21, the dog was looking for her for days.
That's sad. When my Abby passed, Remy searched for days as well. Was heartbreaking. blues
Feb 15, 2015 5:42 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
jono7: i'm not sure.....but i think she's lookin' right at me....
Hey.....and me too! confused
Feb 15, 2015 5:48 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
Kaybee50: Hey.....and me too!


i think she's flirting.....

laugh
Feb 15, 2015 6:04 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
jac_the_gripper: I am smitten with that kitten.


You just want something warm and furry to cuddle uptogiggle
Feb 15, 2015 6:11 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
jono7: i think she's flirting.....
Kind've full circle back to subject of this thread. laugh
Feb 15, 2015 10:41 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
I simply wouldn't have the interest or desire to be on an online dating site forum if I was in a relationship.

I'd be looking for a reason to be outta here dunno

If my real-life partner(NB real-life....not a cyber LDR) chose to flirt with other women on a forum here and spend much of his time on the site, I'd be thinking there's something seriously wrong with the relationship.

I am not referring to dating either....I am referring to a real-life committed relationship.

I'd struggle to find the time for starters. I'd keep in contact by email with friends I've made, but that would be it. My attention would be elsewhere.

grin
Feb 15, 2015 10:47 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
uptall: You just want something warm and furry to cuddle upto



more people want someone warm and.......blushing
Feb 15, 2015 10:48 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
BerrySmoothie: I simply wouldn't have the interest or desire to be on an online dating site forum if I was in a relationship.

I'd be looking for a reason to be outta here

If my real-life partner(NB real-life....not a cyber LDR) chose to flirt with other women on a forum here and spend much of his time on the site, I'd be thinking there's something seriously wrong with the relationship.

I am not referring to dating either....I am referring to a real-life committed relationship.

I'd struggle to find the time for starters. I'd keep in contact by email with friends I've made, but that would be it. My attention would be elsewhere.


Very well said and I totally agree with you on this. thumbs up I suspect a lot of people agree with this as indicated by the poll results so far. wave
Feb 15, 2015 10:49 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
Lannna23
Lannna23Lannna23las Vegas, Nevada USA23 Threads 1,091 Posts
2intrigued: Very well said and I totally agree with you on this. I suspect a lot of people agree with this as indicated by the poll results so far.
thumbs up

agree too
Feb 15, 2015 10:50 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
2intrigued: Very well said and I totally agree with you on this. I suspect a lot of people agree with this as indicated by the poll results so far.



Hi Deb....oh, ok....didn't check the poll results.

Have just sat down for the first time today.

About to make some dinner.

How's your day been? hug
Feb 15, 2015 11:03 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Hi Deb....oh, ok....didn't check the poll results.

Have just sat down for the first time today.

About to make some dinner.

How's your day been?


All is well out my way...freezing cold outside though. mumbling laugh It sounds like you've been a busy lady today. hug
Feb 15, 2015 11:10 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
2intrigued: All is well out my way...freezing cold outside though. It sounds like you've been a busy lady today.


Busy? Yep....Monday here....and it ain't over yet. sigh

Looking forward to putting my feet up later on....thumbs up

Sun still streaming down here and will be until at least 7:30....daylight saving kicked in, October last year. I'm not a fan of the colder temps so don't envy you guys at the mo.snowed in
Feb 15, 2015 11:19 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Busy? Yep....Monday here....and it ain't over yet.

Looking forward to putting my feet up later on....

Sun still streaming down here and will be until at least 7:30....daylight saving kicked in, October last year. I'm not a fan of the colder temps so don't envy you guys at the mo.


Kick off your shoes and relax for a bit and that's an order. professor laugh Can't wait for spring here. happy place
Feb 15, 2015 11:25 PM CST Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
2intrigued: Kick off your shoes and relax for a bit and that's an order. Can't wait for spring here.



Yes ma'am.....if ya don't sheddup, though....I won't get a chance....laugh hug

Gotta go...wave

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