Should a person in a relationship be spending a lot of time on CS flirting with all and sundry? (124)
Great comments everyone
cincy's not my circus..
too right lanna!
berry, 2intrigued and draegon
cincy's not my circus.. too right lanna!
berry, 2intrigued and draegon
minnieme2: Great comments everyone
cincy's not my circus..
too right lanna!
berry, 2intrigued and draegon
cincy's not my circus..
too right lanna!
berry, 2intrigued and draegon
minnieme2: Great comments everyone
cincy's not my circus..
too right lanna!
berry, 2intrigued and draegon
cincy's not my circus..
too right lanna!
berry, 2intrigued and draegon
minnieme2: Great comments everyone
cincy's not my circus..
too right lanna!
berry, 2intrigued and draegon
cincy's not my circus..
too right lanna!
berry, 2intrigued and draegon
estrella123: They really are "IN RELATIONSHIP"..
@ estrella: so they said, maybe they were fibbing
secretagentsecretagent09: If two people meet on a dating site and they want to respond to threads and each others comments in those threads I don't have a problem with that. You don't stop communicating with the world just because you have a love life.
However, I have a big problem with my partner flirting with someone else. It's happened to me and it was another red flag.
However, I have a big problem with my partner flirting with someone else. It's happened to me and it was another red flag.
Hiya M
It would be a big issue for me as well. I wouldn't like it if he flirted in real life either
unlaoised: Hiya M
It would be a big issue for me as well. I wouldn't like it if he flirted in real life either
It would be a big issue for me as well. I wouldn't like it if he flirted in real life either
Same here.
BerrySmoothie: No, I don't think they should be.
If I was in a committed relationship, I'd be focusing my attentions and energies on the relationship.
If I was in a committed relationship, I'd be focusing my attentions and energies on the relationship.
why are you so far from America
I'm in need of thatkind of attentions and energies
No he shouldn't be, that's my bloody job
I see many people who are in relationships/Marriage on CS, just for the sakes of blogs and forums. If they are "flirting" with other members, that is their fault. Unless, they are trying to get out of their relationships/Marriages.
I am SINGLE, so I don't have those problems.
I am SINGLE, so I don't have those problems.
I'm so glad I'm not in a suffocating relationship where I'm not trusted to have a laugh with my friends.
jac_the_gripper: I'm so glad I'm not in a suffocating relationship where I'm not trusted to have a laugh with my friends.
jac_the_gripper: I'm so glad I'm not in a suffocating relationship where I'm not trusted to have a laugh with my friends.
Never mind gripper
.. your suffocating lover could be just around the corner. 
jac_the_gripper: I'm so glad I'm not in a suffocating relationship where I'm not trusted to have a laugh with my friends.
if you want you can have a suffocating one with me
She trusts you, right? (To have a suffocating relationship)
MrBenjaminWright: She trusts you, right? (To have a suffocating relationship)
I don't think so, but I'll try hard
Of course, she trusts you...just about as far as she can throw you!
uptall: Never mind gripper .. your suffocating lover could be just around the corner.
Yeah, I think there might be a few who would love to put a pillow over my face, but that's kinda different.
bungallow55: if you want you can have a suffocating one with me
Thanks for the offer Bung, but let me see...ummm...errr...no.
jac_the_gripper: Thanks for the offer Bung, but let me see...ummm...errr...no.
like I said I was willing to try
jac_the_gripper: Yeah, I think there might be a few who would love to put a pillow over my face, but that's kinda different.
many more that would rather share that pillow with ya, jac....
(you still have yur whip..right...? ...
)jono7: many more that would rather share that pillow with ya, jac....
(you still have yur whip..right...? ...)
(you still have yur whip..right...? ...)
I could nip down the shops and get a walnut whip to share with ya, Jono.
I'm afraid I wore the cat o' nine tails out on allthegoodnamest's back last night.
I'll let you have the first lick.
minnieme2: Agree or disagree or abstain?
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.
Isn't it a bit suspect that someone who says they're in a relationsship spends so much time on CS flirting with so many, all be it harmless flirting? Doesn't say much for the relationship, does it?
That's just my opinion from what I observed.
What people do in their free time is of no concern to anyone, especially if it doesn't effect them personally. If someone is wanting to control someone to the degree that they can't accept them posting Online, that's more of a red flag than anything else.
I'm happily in a relationship, I post on CS and other forums, and haven't felt the need to flirt with anyone. My partner knows I post and where, and doesn't really care. She's just as content as she posts on her forums.
Just because we're in a relationship, it doesn't mean we have to devote every waking moment to each other. There's something called 'me time'.
jac_the_gripper: I could nip down the shops and get a walnut whip to share with ya, Jono.
I'm afraid I wore the cat o' nine tails out on allthegoodnamest's back last night.
I'll let you have the first lick.
I'm afraid I wore the cat o' nine tails out on allthegoodnamest's back last night.
I'll let you have the first lick.
darn!!!..... tooo late again.
i'm sure anything you pick will be just fine by me....
and i have it in writing now...
first lick....
when i joined cs, i was single. since that time, i met someone.
during the time i was single, i met several folks from cs in real life, and made several e-friendships here as well.
now that i am in a relationship why should i stop visiting them here on cs?
yes...it's a dating site. i get that.
a dating site with an option to make friends...
when i was single, i was inspired by the folks on here who had actually met a significant other here.
as long as folks keep their profiles honest and mention their intentions...what's the problem?
of all the things to consider on here...
i'd be more concerned about scammers, folks misrepresenting themselves, and a few who take free speech to whole new levels...
flirting...i only flirt with jac
during the time i was single, i met several folks from cs in real life, and made several e-friendships here as well.
now that i am in a relationship why should i stop visiting them here on cs?
yes...it's a dating site. i get that.
a dating site with an option to make friends...
when i was single, i was inspired by the folks on here who had actually met a significant other here.
as long as folks keep their profiles honest and mention their intentions...what's the problem?
of all the things to consider on here...
i'd be more concerned about scammers, folks misrepresenting themselves, and a few who take free speech to whole new levels...
flirting...i only flirt with jac
jono7: when i joined cs, i was single. since that time, i met someone.
during the time i was single, i met several folks from cs in real life, and made several e-friendships here as well.
now that i am in a relationship why should i stop visiting them here on cs?
yes...it's a dating site. i get that.
a dating site with an option to make friends...
when i was single, i was inspired by the folks on here who had actually met a significant other here.
as long as folks keep their profiles honest and mention their intentions...what's the problem?
of all the things to consider on here...
i'd be more concerned about scammers, folks misrepresenting themselves, and a few who take free speech to whole new levels...
flirting...i only flirt with jac
during the time i was single, i met several folks from cs in real life, and made several e-friendships here as well.
now that i am in a relationship why should i stop visiting them here on cs?
yes...it's a dating site. i get that.
a dating site with an option to make friends...
when i was single, i was inspired by the folks on here who had actually met a significant other here.
as long as folks keep their profiles honest and mention their intentions...what's the problem?
of all the things to consider on here...
i'd be more concerned about scammers, folks misrepresenting themselves, and a few who take free speech to whole new levels...
flirting...i only flirt with jac
Hiya jono,
I get both opinions. I haven't dated off CS since 2013 and looking at the type of guys (not everyone but the vast majority) I met LOCALLY of CS, I wouldn't want to meet anyone locally from a dating website. I only date in RL these days.
I have chatted to some interesting people internationally who I would love to meet (both genders) for a coffee - I would miss the entertainment and catching up with people on here, but if a guy would want me to stop using the forum and blogs, I would do so.
I can only talk about me - I don't cheat, period. Being on a dating website wouldn't be the slightest bit of temptation for me if I'm with someone.
Of course I would prefer spending time with that person and wouldn't switch on my laptop if himself was around, but I was with workaholics in the past. Would be nice to have someone around a bit more.
unlaoised: So, do tell...did you ever meet a decent woman in a pub?
No. They're all tramps.
MADDOG69: No. They're all tramps.
A dirty back alley, is not a pub
2girlsnocup: A dirty back alley, is not a pub
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And you want me to "catch" married guy again???????