Doesn't matter what I think, it's what the terrorist thinks. I've met people who believe they are compelled to take actions based on what they belive their religion dictates.......
Whew bit too deep for this site .... gotta lighten up I think
Anything can be as complicated as you want to make it.. I left my non EU country and came to the UK. sorted it all afterwards. Not easy, but achievable.
RE: meeting
As soon as you are both comfortable with the thought of meeting...