Nah, I'm particular in who I kiss as well. One got a kiss on the cheek as a "thank you for taking me out" because while he was pissed off that he wasnt going to score, he was at least decent about it, unlike the other 5, who called me names or tried to steal my car keys.
The "tried to steal my car keys" guy got an injured hand instead.
The guy I actually dated for about a month was the first guy that I actually kissed in just over a year.
As far as it being a girl thing regarding not jumping into bed right away....
Unfortunately, in my experience, it is a girl thing with the exception of a few guys that I've seen in the forums who state they aren't like that.
In the six bad first dates I had in a row, everyone of them tried to score on the first date and everyone of them walked away pissed because I'm not into that. Of course, not one called me for a second date and thats fine. Personally, I rather protect my heart and my health (scary stuff out there).....
Yeah, my window came up too, with the list of songs and the option to play or stop. I'm betting the Active-X control is being blocked. Check your popup blocker
No, but I often feel I was born in the wrong decade or century.
The music I favor is from my mom's decade. The clothes that I love are from another century, lol. I love the old style corsets, etc type tops. Good thing goth kids love that stuff.
Nope, there are many crazy, insecure women out there too. A famous movie one: Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction. As I have a lot of male friends, I've seen more than a couple go through some psycho girls. Including one that called me to pick him up in Lincoln as he was stranded because of the fact he talked to a girl at the bar that he happened to know from here for a few minutes and then she, the girl he went there with, went ballistic and took off on him (his side of the story).
I know that it hurts right now, but it'll fade away. Just have to kiss a lot of toads to find a prince.
Mindful, you're not nuts to still be willing to meet someone. If you are, then I am too. Believe me, I have some experiences with men that would probably curl your hair and yet I am still willing to meet someone. Everyone deserves that person that will be there for them and love them no matter what. If you don't take chances, the moment could pass you by....
The guy was a jerk. Many of them out there. Apparently, he was also insecure; so much so that he had to read your email and change your passwords? YIKES! Just be thankful that you found out about him now rather than much further down the line.
As far as telling your sons, well, you know what? You're human and you made a mistake. I'm sure they'll understand and just be happy that their mom is ok and with them, instead of stuck somewhere alone.
1. Quiet. Until I get to know people, I tend to just listen and absorb what is being said around me.
2. Shy. Part of #1. I, a long time ago, had every bit of confidence I had taken away from me (long story). Its stuck with me since though my confidence is back up. The friends that I have are because they've approached me in some way because my way of thinking was, "Why would they want to be friends with me?". Still to this day, I'm occassionally shocked when I'm included in something. A throw back to when I had less than zero confidence.
3. Fiercely Loyal. My friends mean the world to me. I love them to death. Both in the real world and the CS world. I will defend my friends to the death. I really don't care if the opposition hates me and doesn't talk to me because of it. I will approach my friends if I think they are wrong, but if they are right, I will be right beside them until the very end.
4. Hard working. I put in massive amounts of overtime in when available. I love my job.
5. Competitive. I have a horrible competitive streak. I want to be the best. I'm so darn close at work. My boss laughed when I told him 4s were not good enough. I want a unicorn, which is what we call get a 5 on something at work. Everyone hears they exist, but no one has ever seen one. I was .02 away from scoring a 5 on stats last month. I think I have it this month. That would move me into the position of top agent in my department. I'm co-top agent right now.
6. Softhearted. I hate when someone is hurt. I feel bad when I see a dead animal on the side of the road. I don't want anyone to ever feel left out. A recent example of this was with my boss' team christmas gift. We have the same 4 people who never contribute to any of the gifts, but don't have a problem taking credit for the present. For the Christmas gift, they didn't contribute, so the rest of the group said leave them off the card. I felt REALLY bad about it. Plus, I didn't want my boss (who is an awesome supervisor) to know they didn't contribute, so I put them on the card anyway.
Your best bet is to talk to your friend and get her "ok" on seeing this guy. If she is ok with it, then go for it. If not, which it sounds like won't be if she still likes him, then let him go. If you were to go out with him and she's not ok with it, you may never be friends again.
Boyfriends may come and go, but a good friendship is hard to find.
Oh man Ship....You would have loved this girl, Kimmie that used to come to all my shows.
She was a really cute tiny barbie doll blonde, but was sooooo completely tone deaf with a really high pitched nasally voice. Course she'd get up there and the guys would all cheer because she was cute, which encourage her to sing even more songs.
I used to run Karaoke as well. The most popular duet that I would get people putting in was "Picture". I used to threaten my boss that I was going to break the CD so I didn't have to hear it anymore.
Solo, for guys: Definitely Unchained Melody as Ship said. For girls: You Oughta Know by Alannis Morrisette was REALLY popular for a while (lots of angry women apparently)
1. Yes. Why do I think its possible? I know two older couples that experienced it. 1 is my friend Sarah's "adopted parents". They love to tell the story. They saw each other and just immediately knew. They were married within a month and have been married for 40 years as of next year. The other is my other friend's parents, who have been married 34 years, and were married within 4 months of meeting. Both couples say that when they saw each other, they just knew before even speaking that they were seeing the person they were going to marry.
2. Yes, I believe in soul mates. I believe that you can have a "love" soulmate and a "friend" soulmate. I have my friend soulmate, who compliments my personality in every way. I still haven't found the "Love" soulmate.
3. Finally, I believe in different depths of love. You learn by loving and losing makes you stronger, but I believe true love comes along once and is for always.
I got my fireplace working finally. So, Saturday, most of the day, I sat at home with a rental on Pay Per View, enjoying the heat from it and drinking hot tea.
Then my friend called me because she was nervous being home alone (hubby was out of town) so I had to go out in this miserable weather. BRRRR. I hate snow.
I think Snow Days are the best for relaxing around the house and enjoying TV and books.
Now thats a good guy. No guy would go through that kind of trouble if he didn't want to be in it for the long haul. He's taking you to the doctors, helping you pick out names....Sounds like his mind is made up and its set on being with you.
Yes, my old house, which was really old, was haunted. You could hear people moving on the 3rd floor and talking. It would stop when you hit the landing on the 2nd floor to go up to the third floor landing. It's like a TV being turned off.
My ex brother-in-law who was living with me and my ex at the time was a witness to when the cabinets flew open. Not opened slowly, flew open. They were old fashion with turn keys and hard to open. He was with me when they all SLAMMED open. We were sitting in the living room when that happened. Slam, slam, slam, slam....Creepy.
I never SAW anything like an actual ghost, just heard things. My ex brother-in-law's son, who was 4, had nightmares or what we assume were nightmares, about an old man who would come in and sit on his bed. His bedroom was also on the 3rd floor.
The guys in CS land can easily see that from my profile. There's a pic of me with my family after my brother's title fight (quad state champion) with his belt. And I've posted a few things on their fights as well...
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That would move me into the position of top agent in my department. I'm co-top agent right now.
Smarty pants!!! No 'Smores for you!
RE: drama is a requirement or what?
Nah, I'm particular in who I kiss as well. One got a kiss on the cheek as a "thank you for taking me out" because while he was pissed off that he wasnt going to score, he was at least decent about it, unlike the other 5, who called me names or tried to steal my car keys.The "tried to steal my car keys" guy got an injured hand instead.
The guy I actually dated for about a month was the first guy that I actually kissed in just over a year.