I agree with Eric. Just because we don't share the same opinion doesn't mean anything.
Eric, for example, and I may disagree on a thread and then spend time going back and forth on opinions, but that doesn't mean its a mess. Just a debate.
Nor does that mean I would avoid Eric's posts because of one we disagreed on. I wouldn't avoid any that you post in the future.
And those who are simply shallow Matthew, will spend the rest of their lives unfulfilled without looking for more besides looks. Those people will go from one relationship to another once that initial physical attraction wears off. That's their problem and I feel sorry for them.
And men don't? Don't generalize. Just as there are women out there that will choose looks over personality, there are men out there who do too.
AGAIN, if they don't have a physical attraction to the person with a caring personality (whether they are male or female) they are going to go to the one they have a physical attraction to.
Oh good God, Matthew. The way women act??? This is the kind of attitude that makes women go the other way.
Lets say that you were in my age range...You're actually way too young for me, but if you were and I read this, I would have assumed based on your posts that your very insecure about your looks (whether that is true or not) and have an attitude towards women in general because you need to "see a change in the way women act". All of which is a massive turn off.
You want to lump us all in one category....As I stated previously, you cannot help what particular physical type you are attracted to. I want the things I say I do, but again without SOME form of physical attraction its friendship only.
What I get just from reading contastly from you complaining about women choosing looks over whatever, is that you're insecure about your own looks. You're not a bad looking guy, but insecurity is a massive turnoff.
I do want honesty, caring, etc. BUT you have to have some form of physical attraction. Without a form of physical attraction, you have nothing but friendship.
If physical attraction didn't play into it, I could have married my friend Carl. The problem is while we're the best of friends, neither of us find the other physically attractive. He's not my type at all and I'm not a 5'4" Blue Eyed Blonde like the women he dates. I'm attracted to a certain look. Something you'd see in common with all the guys I have dated.
Yes, physical attraction can grow from personality, for example my friends Traci & Brad. Brad was not her type at all, but they worked together and the more they worked together, the more she got to know him, the more she found him attractive.
If you go back 14 years, you'll see an accident in 1993 which the report will show that as Not At Fault. Which is when I got rear ended.
Then you'll see another in 1996 which is also listed as Not At Fault which is when I got turned in front of.
You won't find a darn thing. Which is why I pay very low premiums on my insurance records.
I'll admit to speeding. I speed everywhere, but the last time I got pulled over I told the officer that the speed limit was only a suggestion. He asked me how I figured that. I told him and he was LMAO and gave me a warning because I was "highly original".
I'm ignoring the Women are banned from this thread. Just because I don't care for rules, .
I was in two accidents, neither of which were my fault. I was rear-ended which caused damage to both my knees (put them through the dash of the car) and then I had an idiot not paying attention run a red light, turn out in front of me in the pouring rain, which re-injured my right knee. Just a FYI. The first accident was caused by a woman and the second was a man.
My driving skills are actually very good. Got a flawless score on defensive driving. My driving record is actualy flawless which is why I have a great insurance rate.
Been there done that with my Bipolar ex. He always said when we were in an argument, "We're done! I'm moving out". Of course, he never did.
Finally, he promised that he was going to straighten out and we'd work out our problems. I thought things were getting better. Then he moved out without warning while I was at work. Came home to an emptied out apartment.
I sometimes look at the profiles of the posters on here if they are people I'm not familar with. I'll check both Guys & Girls. Just gives me a sense of who people are more by reading their "About Me" section.
Well, this year I'm more established than I was. All in all, I have made many more friends in the real world as well as here on CS.
I'm still single, which I'm not happy about, but looks like my New Years Eve is going to end with a kiss on the cheek by my best friend's husband as it did last year, but hopefully 2008 will bring me the love I deserve.
Corpus Christi TX. I fell in love with it when I was down there for a week. It's just beautiful. The gulf on both sides of the road. Palms everywhere. Its just gorgeous. I would love to just up and move there. Despite the threat of hurricanes every now and then.
RE: Anybody Supporting A Really Bad NFL Team This Year?
I'm an Indy Fan, so I can't say horrible season. Granted we're not having a perfect season, but they're doing decent.