A friend of ours married a guy that we thought she should not have married...here are a few things that are of concern to us
1. before they got married she found out that the beautiful love letters she had gotten from him are templates indeed used many times by him and his buddies.
2. he had several others plus her and still does
3. When they got married (we watched her from the carpark) struggling to go upstairs to the honeymoon sweet with all the gifts while he just carried the keys.
4.ON THE HONEYMOON NIGHT HE SAID SHE SHOULD WAIT, SHE IS JUST TOO ANXIOUS. What the hell?
5. She has to go to work then take a bus home to cook dinner and rush to school. Then she has to take the bus back home quickly as he will be waiting for her to share out his dinner.
6. She takes the kid to school on the bus while he drives to work and his car is parked all day at the office and she is on the road struggling with the groceries.
7. When she was pregnant and told him that she wasn't feeling well, he wanted to know if she could manage to cook because he just doesn't think he should be in the kitchen.
Nope, it's not fiction, but even I can't believe it. It is very true. She would complain alot and finally she informed us that they are getting a divorce. No surprise there. Love no one more than yourself.[/quote]
Isn't that selfish love???
Personally, I would rather give, and hopefully receive self-less love..
To bad some of the youngsters on here and in reality can see this. Time slips away, it takes a toll on our lives before we know it.. In "my" case, I have found I am where I am because of the expectations I have had of others..
HJFinAZ Forum Posts (17,068)
RE: In the hospital
You're not complaining are you?Get better soon..