Xtabentun Forum Posts (1,722)
ice cream anyone?
Kleenex? 
Hmmm...be careful what you give out, you have inside information ! 
Kenn, great to see you have such a nice vibe, after all you've been through!
Hi CJ! I am fantastic, thank you!
why do you have to tell 
didn't know you can increase your view by admiring your own pics? 
Lots of good energy, I am sure the surgery will change things in much better! And an to watch over her!
Put the thought out there!
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wow, yours is ....impressive! 
RE: re:adivce for a freind..help
I think the whole conversation is way taken to the extremes here.Since " the girl" seem so confused about what she would do, it's obvious she's not used to traveling, so she'd be better off at home, a long distance relationship is not her best option.
In reality, I think everybody's being way too harsh on the guy.
Come on , people! The guy offered to pay for her trip! he is acting like a man!
For those that don't need a visa to travel to UK, you have no idea what an ordeal is to get a visa and how uncomfortable the application process is, you need to have an invitation and the person who does that needs to send bank account records and vouch for you!
Unless there's a high confidence relation, that is not something lots of people would do.
So, if I would be in this guy's shows, I wouldn't ask a girl to invite him to UK, even if he would pay for it. Instead, I would invite her to Turkey, where she can get freely, without a visa.
And in case you forgot, Turkey is not wild , wild west!
Once there, she needs to be smart and independent,book her own hotel and take it small steps, see if she really likes him or not!
But really.....