Yes, forgiveness, humility, understanding--I'm not a Christian, but I think JC represents the idea of human grandeur and that is why his image (psychological/spiritual image) has captured the imagination of so many for so long--I like him, he's cool--though much that is not grand has been done in his name.
integrity too---and yes, it does exist, though often we don't recognize it as we seem to fixate on the more negative behavior of those without grandeur.
"Study shows attitude key to finding perfect mate"
By Mike Cinelli
The trick to finding a perfect mate may not be in the search … but in your mind.
We all know that for a relationship to pass the test of time there needs to be more than physical attraction, but the exact keys to a good match have not been as clear. New research by C. Raymond Knee, assistant professor at the University of Houston Department of Psychology, and his colleagues shows your beliefs about destiny and growth can make or break a relationship.
Studies of more than 200 couples show that finding the perfect romantic partner is not equally important to everyone. In fact, researchers find that those who believe that relationships grow over time are less troubled by their partner’s shortcomings.
“Differences between partners don’t have to be a bad thing. It depends on what you believe. When you believe that relationships are based on ‘building a good relationship,’ and not simply ‘finding a good match,’ these differences actually strengthen the relationship,” Knee said.
The research, published in the July issue of Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, focused on two beliefs – destiny and growth. Belief in destiny holds that relationship partners are either meant for each other or they are not.
Belief in growth involves the idea that relationships are maintained and improved by working through problems.
Researchers found that those who believe in romantic destiny are disheartened by their partner’s less-than-ideal qualities, perhaps viewing these flaws as an indication that the relationship is not meant to be. Those who believe in growth do not view their partner’s failure to live up to their ideals as a fatal flaw in the relationship. Instead, they seem to acknowledge and appreciate their partner’s limitations as “part of the package” and to use them to develop a unique bond with that person.
These individuals believe that relationships are not based on landing the perfect partner but on developing and strengthening a bond with someone.
Good to know. Probably also so depends on your screening of them--that is, only meeting someone you have positive feelings about, etc. We must try to be wise and careful...
I go on trips all the time--my cat doesn't climb on the kitchen counters, get in the waste bins, walk on the table, etc. He's a very good boy,actually--always has been. I am lucky.
I love cats too and raising cats and dogs together is good--they usually like each other. My dog and cat were best friends. Dog has been gone 8 years now, cat is now 15 and doing well. He is now an inside cat 'cause we live the apartment lifestyle, but was once a great hunter--mice, birds, even a baby possom one time...One time my roommate had brought home a box of walnuts. She spread them on some newspaper in the family room out to dry. A field mouse got in the house and ran under the couch. I went and got the cat, the roommate held up the end of the couch, I realeased the cat and boom--got the mouse in about 2 seconds. It was hilarious (well not for the mouse!). I don't think you can teach them to mouse. Both males and females are good at it. But, I think it varies from cat to cat how into it they are. Good luck. Maybe consult your vet.
Portiea Forum Posts (4,000)
bed time for bonzo soon--that's me! 
i hate you
RE: The human grandeur
Yes, forgiveness, humility, understanding--I'm not a Christian, but I think JC represents the idea of human grandeur and that is why his image (psychological/spiritual image) has captured the imagination of so many for so long--I like him, he's cool--though much that is not grand has been done in his name.