You really should change your name on here to beautiful spirit because everything I read from you says that about you. Don't give up. Often we don't see ourselves or our situation as others do.
I do understand because I've been to other states and however beautiful they are, they aren't home. The interesting thing is that I've known many many people who came here from other places who didn't like it and left, then came back and said it was better than they thought. So maybe you like it better than you realize. Or not.
I'm sorry you don't seem to like California or the people very much. I hope everyone hasn't disappointed you. There are some very good people out here.
How does the weather effect you, your mood or life?
Now that winter is on it's way, the days are getting shorter and dipping below freezing at night here in Alberta. I really hate the whole idea of it, and can't wait to get out of here. I'm moving as soon as I get this house done and sold to southern British Columbia where the temps are much more moderate and winter is a lot shorter. The last two weeks have been nothing but high winds, cool weather with a bit of rain mixed in just to add to the misery. Today the wind is gusting to over 60 mph again and makes it difficult to do anything outdoors, and not enjoyable in the slightest, and it's only going to get worse!
I find myself getting a bit depressed and slightly miserable at this time of year and it only gets worse as it gets colder, snows and stays for up to 8 months of the year. WTF ever possessed anyone to actually live in such climes and make it their home?
Well, it's 81 here today (27) and the weather/temp is pretty much the same here year round so my miserable personality is all my own fault.
Wow, I can't believe I just said that and meant it! God help me!
I agree with you, I was talking about this last night, the only difference between online dating and real life is that in real life its hard to find and then arrange a date with a stranger, while online you find many singles, filter them and then try to get that date, from then on the two merge into the lets meet again or bye and thanks but no thanks.
But believe me, when I say that getting that first date is often just as hard for us guys,
Well, it's comforting to know some of you are actually trying.
Well, meeting them is the first step. Being on the computer adds another step because in person you can screen them faster. But I used to think the whole of idea was to actually meet people in person and I'm not sure any more-not from my side but from theirs. Frankly even a bad date (and I've had a lot of those) is better than sitting in front of the computer.
I'm so sorry...you've had some difficult times. I think a good man is one who is real and realistic. I think lots of men spend years online playing around. It's much more fun for them to flirt night after night than actually meet real live women in person and give up their fantasies. So for me a good man would be one who wants to turn off the computer and meet me!
True, very true. I think people flirt so much and it's all so tempting that sometimes they lose sight of reality or it seems boring in comparison. I don't know but you're right.
Actually I'm a bit upset about it all this morning since there was one person I liked a lot on here and just found out that he too has someone else but I'm trying to look on the bright side....
Yeah, I'm found that in general on here. Even the so-called appropriate ones turn out to be flirting and writing serious emails to lots of other women endlessly so if you can purely enjoy the interraction you can have lots of fun.
RE: hugz and kissess just said she loved me,lol,,,,
Well, don't put anymore ideas into his head, girl!