Laura25 Forum Posts (8,178)

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

I promise you no promises.

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

Are you kidding?

I am all for promises, John!

Unconditional promises, that is.


"If-it's-a-true-love" condition is no good...

Or you'll have to define it solid.

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

P.S. The meaning of such a promise:

"it will depend how I feel about you at the moment."

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

Bingo!

Hence no promises should be ever made based on "if-it's-a-true-love" condition.

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

Yep...

I got it.

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

For me to.

An effort is very nice.

Not exactly "a true love", but again what is?

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

Very true statements!

But, Paradox, didn't these true statements just diminish your definition of a "true love"?

To ground zero.

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

it got you worried? Yeah, me too...

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

Sounds about right.
So, I assume that (according your definition) it (obviosly) should go both ways.

Now, this "keep trying"... the term is kinda too loose to go by, no?

You realize that trying not always guaranteed a success. Up-and-downs will remain.

When it's a 'down phase', is it not a 'true love' anymore? Not enough trying?

You see, this "if-it's-a-true-love" condition is a good one... for any turn of events at any given point un a relationship.

I personally wouldn't tie myself to this tricky condition; can only rely on my partner's personality and on a degree of our competability.

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

That's a really tricky part ,

by whose definition of "true love"?

Even assuming that your respective definitions remain static over the time (which is not likely), still... whose? Yours or hers?

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

haha... not how he expected.

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

don't you always?

RE: BEHIND OR BESIDE

Right,

'beside' would define a successful couple.

Talking about just a 'successful man' but emphasizing who should take a credit for his success (fully or partially) it's 'behind'.

RE: MEN ONLY PLS: curly question time! who would you choose?

Hey Lela!

Nope... I didn't think he would.....




P.S. BTW, your posts in this thread are both educational and hilarious!

RE: MEN ONLY PLS: curly question time! who would you choose?

Oh, and how did I miss that!! Got me kinda worried....

Good evening J.D.

I am always looking forward to your valuable input in threads like this...

RE: New Dating

Exactly Hugz
We'd need 2 separate baskets:
1 for men, and 1 for women.

RE: New Dating

Good evening Sassy.

Yes, I've heard about speed-dating.

Don't think I'd be interested to try it. To me, it sounds like a convair belt.

But I am sure it works for some ppl.

RE: MEN ONLY PLS: curly question time! who would you choose?

You are brilliant, Dru!

Back to basics -

interpersonal compatibility on ALL levels.

RE: I don´t know how to DIY

Aaaaww, don't let one disaster stop you from DIY Jan!

RE: Why do you think society for the most part. . . . . .

So according to your OP you are in minority?

RE: Why do you think society for the most part. . . . . .

OP - "for the most part"

RE: Why do you think society for the most part. . . . . .

I don't believe this statement(question) holds the truth.

Not from my view point.

Why do you believe in negative vs positive?

RE: the pain

Rejections hurt. Yes.

Most rejections don't hurt one's heart but one's ego.

Still hurts of course, regardless... if you see it us rejection that is.

You just said yourself - they don't know who you really are - meaning they do not reject you.

If you got to know each other, you've met, you spent some time together, etc.; and then she said she is not interested, that would be rejection.

RE: LADIES ONLY PLS: curly question time! who would you choose?

RE: LADIES ONLY PLS: curly question time! who would you choose?

Pardon me - slightly warmed cantaloupe.

RE: Good news and bad news.

haha... nope...

<~~~~~~~ this guy!

RE: Good news and bad news.

The good news.... aaah, there are quite a few.

Bad news.... my hands are all bitten.



Hiya G.

We all be right here when you are back, not going anywhere...

RE: MEN ONLY PLS: curly question time! who would you choose?

Oh, yes!!!!! You don't have to tell me twice.

I am not about to share liquids with rilly's grandpa... Cantaloupes are out of my menu for quite a while now.

RE: the pain

I am sorry you are hurting.


Is it a virtual heart-break?


...'coz I don't believe in those...

RE: MEN ONLY PLS: curly question time! who would you choose?

It's half-the-truth John.

You see, I have this cantaloupe...

And though I did learn something new this rainy Saturday morning but the question is - will I enjoy it[the cantaloupe] now?

...nah... don't think so. I'll have to throw it out or sent it to Rilly... errmmm... I mean to his grandpa...