I, on the other hand, have a long way to go before I'll learn (or will be capable of) noticing "hearts of gold" when there is a dire lack of... ... everything else.
Jon, my pointing out that you are an unusually deep thinker in no way implies that I want to see you "hush and go add a no to the listing".
Reading your posts, I find that you and I think alike in many ways.
I know that acting on impulse (and trying to keep certain tendencies here) I didn't provide much of a choice in OP poll options. And for that I do apologize.
RE: Supportiveness is the key