Oh, it would be a common civilized approach - not being foul or rude to them or the life they continue pursuing.
What would be the point of being foul or rude to them? It's their life after all.
Continue friendships, on the other hand, I have a problem to understand...
Let's see... two people who used to be a couple, loved each other, had a strong physical attraction between them, at some point in life went separate ways... for some reason, any reason.
Friendship, to me, is based on emotion like liking, on some type of social commitment and regular interactions, sharing enjoyable activities and much more.
That's friendship.
This being given, combined with being each other's type physically, at least one of the two (if not both) will have hopes, ideas, fantasies going....
Well, I might be "thick"
but...
...let's just say I don't see how it could be fair to either them or the "other person".
I have a lot to learn from you all, I mean I am not enemies with either my ex-husband nor my ex-boyfriend, but not great friends either - don't see how I could be ... without going back-n-forth forever....
leave alone the "other person",
I don't even know if ether of them has this "other person" today.
Monty, I am very sorry you are having such a hard time. As mothers we all here do understand and feel for you, and hope things between your son and your DIL will work out for the best. They both (judging by your age) are so very young which makes it harder for them to sort things out.
Hang in there. And you have great veiw points from ppl in this thread. I hope it helps a little.
And how do you know that Rilly? When even his mother doesn't know what happened in this young family?
It's thin now, you have no way of knowing who is at fault... if any one of them... And instead of working through thin times you suggest go looking for another thick.
Wonder how many it's gonna be through out the years with this philosophy.
I just hope there is no one that wise around this boy at the time...
You didn't really look for anybody's opinion Linnypaint, did you? Casting judgement in OP like that? There can't be 2 diff opinions on what's presented in OP.
But I do have a comment...
First, if they spent their weekends together for some time, it is dating.
Getting to know each other - it's a dating process.
...and a question:
How did the guy know about other 3 guys in 2 days?
P.S. She is justified to do what she wants with her life; He is justified not to have anything to do with her.
RE: Hi
hahaha.... I will, but not now. For now we have you, you, YOUUUUUUUU and KMD, KMD, KMD!