I know she finds it distressing though, embarrassing also
And it's this that has triggered my interest, to try to understand how those who are affected by this issue can be assisted and supported to find some relief.
I've pondered on whether the fact that I'm a minimalist triggered my fascination with this issue but I don't think so
One thing I've discovered is that some who hoard, to the extent that they have piles of stuff surrounding them, come to a point that they don't actually notice it
Those layers of stuff become 'walls', reducing their living space but otherwise just part of the architecture of their home
Strangely, in visiting my lady, I've adjusted to this also and simply take my spot on the sofa (the only vacant space available) and chat away quite comfortably
I just think there's far too much emphasis placed on it ~ people seem to think that if they can't crack it in the everyday world, somehow the magic online-dating fairy is going to deliver their perfect someone
If people are going to get tedious and talk about exclusivity when they haven't even met yet, I'm thinking reality check
No I'm just thinking about my grandboy, seeing him tomorrow as we're going to Taronga Zoo for his annual birthday celebration
I don't see him very often as they live in Sydney ~ his father's family is European and they're always visiting en masse and they're huggy and noisy and OTT and that's just not me
It's so complex and a clinical psychologist should probably be involved
I took one of my ladies who is affected by this condition out for coffee yesterday, during the course of our chat I felt comfortable in asking when she felt her acquiring first began
She immediately said it was when her marriage broke down
RE: Where Are All The Budding Artists?
I love to draw but I don't have the necessary imaginative skills required for illustratingI find this idea quite captivating