Because you walked away with the prize from the relationship, your child.
And because we are strong women, we don't expect anything from the men we regard as 'losers', we move forward without looking back and make the best life we can for ourselves and our children.
I'm not sure if people understand that scamming is a business, and a very lucrative one.
Those who think they are winning by toying with scammers are just wasting their time, they'll just move on to the next target, time is money.
And giving them tips as to what they are doing wrong is enabling them to perfect their performance.
Imagine a very large office space with dozens and dozens of people sitting in front of a computer, they are paid to do this and the most successful ones may go on to run their own business.
There are no emotions involved, it's just a means to an end.
Had my carpets cleaned recently by a young guy who had the thickest Scottish accent, he was chatting away with me and I adored how he pronounced my name (not Serene)
I don't really have any pet peeves but if I had to name an irritation it would be about walking my little dog on his lead each morning along a shared walking/cycling path around the lake and having to yank him to the side, regularly, when the MAMILS (middle-aged men in lycra) come flying up behind us with no warning
If they need to do 20kms/hour perhaps they could ride on the road or get a life maybe?
I suspect that this thread was triggered by a comment I made on another one, an observation that your behaviour may be associated with your being on the autism spectrum ie. the inability to interact with people within societal norms.
To add to this, I am also thinking possible Borderline Personality Disorder:
'Behavioural: antisocial behaviour, compulsive behaviour, hostility, impulsivity, irritability, risk-taking behaviours, self-destructive behaviour, self-harm, social isolation, or lack of restraint Mood: anger, anxiety, general discontent, guilt, loneliness, mood swings, or sadness Psychological: depression, distorted self-image, grandiosity, or narcissism'
I'm no armchair psychologist, I simply work all day every day with people whose lives are affected by mental illness.
And my posts are intended to assist those who interact, and battle, with you to gain some insight into your behaviour.
It's not about them, it's about you and I hope you have supports in place that may assist you.
You have to explain this 'for' EVERYONE as you display absolutely no sense of humour nor do you appear to comprehend humour from others.
I'm still thinking you're on the autism spectrum which would explain your inability to interract with others within the parameters of the societal 'norm'.
I would add to this that those who possess these qualities and hold a quiet confidence about them are probably more magnetic than those who need others to tell them so then go on to tell others about it
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RE: The New Face of the UK?
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