I've listened to and read many accounts of near death experiences where an individual has seen a glimpse of Heaven, the bright Light, seeing Angels, ect...
have never heard of anyone seeing flames or feeling the Heat of Hell, surely not everyone who has a near death experience is a practicing religious individual who is without Sin!
One can have the "feelings" of being inlove without meeting, however the litmus test will only come once having spent RL time in each others company, not cyber time.
If you take a look at what turns people off on first dates, you'll notice how certain things can be hiden through cyber contact, for instance, if the person never washes, that cyber love will turn into repulsion about 50 feet before the first meet.
Love is not simply about the words a person speaks, a still photo or cam chat, it can incorperate the smallest details, even the type of shoes a person wears. It's the whole and not parts that needs to be seen, smelt and felt before one can say they are honestly "inlove".
A spoilt rich kid who gets pandered to, one who doesn't realise that actions have consequences, not just on his self but also on those around him included his family.
I agree that they are all real, and it's also real that the other person can put on an act when using any of those mediums. They can't so easily hide things when they are standing next to you, they can't hide their hygiene routine, how they smell, how they treat others, how thier country may treat you, their family, their friends. RL not cyber life will determine "love"
One can have the feeling of love over the internet, they can't actually be "inlove", that takes much more than just how the person looks or acts through the cyber World. Simple things like how a person smells, eats, snores etc could take away a loving feeling.
IMO it shows immaturity to agree to marry over the internet without having spent time in each others company in RL. One could find out they hate the others persons location when they meet, or find out they just can't be together due to immagration problems. Religion will play a part too even if/when they don't think it will.
Love is not a smooth ride, it has to climb over many obstacles and often, continue to do so.
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RE: Whick is the best food in the world?
Who knows, but the pasta sauce I have cooking smells wonderful