I know the feeling, and it's an uncomfortable one. There is no easy way to deal with it, but one thing, don't let the ex notice that it bothers you in any way. Mine constantly calls and uses some stupid excuse to talk to me after he talks to my son. And no, it's not because he wants me back, it's a control thing. Most of the time it's to yell at me about something, or put me in an uncomfortable position. Lucky for me, we don't meet as much, and the only time I see him is when he picks up my son every other weekend. But the phone calls are aggrivating and uncomfortable for me. I don't want to put my 8 year old son in the middle, so when he tells me that daddy wants to talk to me I have no choice but to take the call. I hate it, but I try very hard not to let him notice it. If he starts up, I just politely tell him that I don't want to spoken to in that manner and hang up. In your case, my advice is to behave the same way. Be polite, don't let her know it bothers you and if it's possible, leave the immediate area she's in.. or at least sit far from her if you can't leave the room to sit in another. If she keeps on spitefully coming closer to you, tell her in a polite tone that you'd rather face what's going on on your own and please leave you be. Or better yet, bring a friend with you to distract her.
It's been a while since I've been on here, had to clear up some personal issues... but I'd like to wish everyone a somewhat belated, but very Happy Easter!
Plant "Columbines" to attract them. I did and see them every season from spring thru summer. They love the nectar from these perrenial plants. They flower beautifully, come in a lot of colors and since they are perrenials, they come up every year.
Hey Wave.. (know it's been a while..lots of personal stuff happening) Wow, read those posts prior.. good to see u weren't kicked out. JEALOSY can get the best of some people making them act like idiots. Noticed no picture of the "crybaby" posted. Gee, wonder why? Don't take it to heart. Still got that pic as my primary, have to say.. I do get a lot of compliments... sooo, others out there, don't be bashful.. Wave is sincere and gives good advice.
Sharon... Most of us here LOVE you, seriously.. I know I do...
I don't know Gord very well but Prayer for Gord..(I first start with the "Our Father", than after the initial prayer, "seal" it with another "Our Father".. so to those that just want to "follow" it, by praying this silently... feel free to:
"Our Father, who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy Kingdom come, thy Will be done, On Earth as well as in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our Trespasses, as we forgive those that Trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For thine is the Kingdom, and the Power, and the Glory Forever and Ever.. Amen"
"Please hear our prayer, dear Lord, to help Gord in his suffering, not only physically, but the mental anguish as well. For You dear Lord, are the one that truly understands suffering both physical and mental during your own ordeal of the pain of your scourging here on earth. Please guide Gord through gently, help to ease his pain in knowing you are by his side.. Amen"
"Seal" in with:
"Our Father, who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy Kingdom come, thy Will be done, On Earth as well as in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our Trespasses, as we forgive those that Trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For thine is the Kingdom, and the Power, and the Glory Forever and Ever.. Amen"
Just a little longer "Spock"... because I just wanted to ask you... Why did you smile?... thought human emotion for Vulcans was a weakness unless you were in "heat", remember?
Sure you should keep in touch but don't be "pushy" if u know what I mean... Be a friend.. drop him a line from time to time saying "Hi, How have u been, etc." NOT every day, just once in a while. Sounds like he doesn't want to rush into anything... so lay off any pressure but just try to be a friend...
Well, thank goodness you escaped, but it's even better that you didn't accept that co-star singing role with "Jim" in those Priceline.com commercials... that would've been a worse fate.
No, unfortunately I would've like to try riding in the desert... I just received a brand new pair of air gliding, jet propelled, stiletto high heeled shoes as a going away present from my home back on Venus, along with my matching, multiple flavoured g-string that also changes colors, but the govt refused me access to my luggage.. they blindfolded, handcuffed me and even put me in a straitjacket... what an ordeal... Now they have conviscated all of my belongings and used my going away presents to see if they can examine the workings of them to be put on the market to gain their own fortune... Now they left me stranded in a small oil refinery filled "state" called New Jersey... They even took my "communicator" so I can't even beam myself back home... I feel like you did when you were stranded on that planet.
True, but then again... what happens when two people finally meet? What's the sense of putting a "fake" or outdated photo if it's not really "you"... Soo, to those that do, it's not really wise... just be yourself and keep those photos updated... That way there will be no dissapointents.
He was invited to co "sing" in those ridiculous Priceline.com commercials with William Shatner some time ago... but he preferred to "Live long and prosper"...
T'all depends... if the mold was broken after making you, then you are "safe" in a way, lol! if not.. then it depends how you look at it. One thing for sure, "opposites" may attract at first, but it normally doesn't last. So therefore I personally feel as my own opinion.. the term "opposites attract" is a crock. It's best that you have a lot in common.. interests, lifestyles.. etc. It doesn't always have to be a battle of egos.. but a combination of them together. Focusing on eachothers egos instead of just your own. Then you both feel better about eachother. Understand what I mean?
Me too.. some of the others don't even have message board posting, etc. And anyways.. seems like what those dislike about CS happens in EVERY dating site.. people not responding, etc... can't give CS the blame for that.
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RE: Do You Find that You Attract Certain Types?
Me too!!