It is not in my nature to be unhappy, so i still find joy and laughter in everything...i find it hard not to laugh and to be morose all the time...but there is a place deep deep inside...that i know is not happy...and that is what throws my equilibrium off..
....and by the way...most people that know me..know that i love my makeup, clothes etc etc...
However i was willing to post a picture of me first thing in the morning on here...not a lot of women would be willing to do that..but i just wanted to show that i'm just normal...if it looks intimidating its because i didn't have my coffee yet!!
The thing is that no matter how much i say i want to at least try...they say don't bother (just because it didn't work with him, doesn't mean i'm not capable of making it work with someone else)..I just feel like its not worth the effort to put myself out there anymore because no one truly believes i can....
Thanks Texas...but as i told someone yesterday...it's really hard to put the negative aside when its the people you love and trust telling you such things...its not only strangers on a website
Between yesterday and this morning i have been "battling" with something...and i'd really like ANYONE'S input here...
Within that span of time, i have been told that "a woman like you can't be single" (they didn't want to "hook up" they just wanted me to know that.. )
I have been told that i'm really not capable of having a relationship because i'm not really willing to put that much effort into it...i'm loving and affectionate, but i don't show it (they may not have considered i don't want to put the effort into THEM...) and i really shouldn't have a pet because i'm too fickle...
My looks (pictures) are intimidating...and i don't look very interested in meeting the "average joe"...
Is it any wonder with all this "advice"...i'm still single (and confused!!)
I don't know if re-locating for "any one person" would be my ultimate reason...it may play a part in it, because as much as i do try to "stay close to home" with the people i meet...well...even the best laid plans....
However, sometimes i think of relocating, but moreso because it would be a change of pace, a new beginning so to speak, new surroundings...reasons such as that...
But then again, having someone in my life may make even my old surroundings appear new, because it would be seen through different eyes...
so i guess my answer would be...ummm...i don't have an answer
My point is that i want to know who i'm saying hello to...not that i think there is anything wrong with them, or that they may not be a wonderful person given the opportunity...i just feel that if they don't have a picture up there is something missing (pun intended)
Jax..please...no offense here...because i do like the two people you mentioned...but as a general rule...they don't want to be judged by their looks...seems to me THEY already did that and found themselves lacking...because as far as i'm concerned...i didn't get that chance they made a decision for me...
Krissy that would be way too much effort on my part for someone who does not have the time nor the inclination to put himself out there like the rest of us had to...
Hi Jax...well i have stopped responding to people with no pics on their profile...because i feel that they have something to hide...and i don't need that type of thing in my life right now
If someone emails or flowers you...and they have no picture in their profile (and i don't mean pic pending) do you respond to them or not?
And as in dreamer's case, if you are contacted by someone for the first time with a lewd or suggestive message...do you respond..either way...to them?
I know there are some who will say that due to the "field of work" they are unable to post a pic (do you buy that?...is there companies out there that prohibit their single empolyees from joining a dating site???) but if you send your email they will send a pic for you...do you give out your email that casually?
Kristine i told you you were getting scary...that guy aloneinakron (or something to that effect) deleted his profile...lol...bloody damn...another one got away!
I had forgotten about that fire...."drive in movies"...was there a better way to spend a warm summer evening...in the back of that old station wagon cuddled up with your sweetheart and popcorn???
I have only recently had the opportunity to send someone something by "snail mail"...and i still remembered to do that...scent the card with my perfume...and seal it with a kiss!!! I love "old school..
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I'm not happy...It is not in my nature to be unhappy, so i still find joy and laughter in everything...i find it hard not to laugh and to be morose all the time...but there is a place deep deep inside...that i know is not happy...and that is what throws my equilibrium off..